Some help girls?

Question

Ok so about 3 weeks ago a girl from church stopped talking to me.... we were starting to become good friends but like i said things got cold turkey real quick. i asked her why we stopped talking and she never answered until just a couple of days ago, she told me she just had been busy with college and work and all that , she told me that she didnt forget about me and that she missed talking to me , she has a bf but they dont see each other much , umm do you think she might have something for me or no chance she just wanted to get back in touch with me and has been just busy? i know this is a stupid question but its a question none the less, and maybe some of you girls know about this or have done this before and its because you have missed that one other guy besides your bf that you possibly could see yourself with...... what i didnt add before is that her bf and her had broken up before because he cheated on her , she took him back ummm its all i wanted to add....

Answer 1

I've played the role of your girl in this scenario.

I think she started to feel a little too attached with you and acted on the feeling of guilt produced by flirting with you. She's a good person because she recognized the wrongs of cheating or kinda-cheating. (asses to the BF, by the way).

It seems like she was craving a bit of attention and you were there. Don't get me wrong, I'm NOT saying she's using you but since she backed off, it kind of shows her loyalty with her BF. However it does sound like she likes you since she isn't really avoiding you. The 'busy with college' thing might be a bit of a fudger (white-lie) but I believe it was only so she could have a bit of alone time to sort out her feelings.

I advise you ask about her relationship with her BF. If she's unhappy she might just need a little extra shove to motivate her to get out of the relationship... only if you'd like to date her, of course. If you do or don't want to date her, keep offering a listening ear and a crying shoulder, you never know how badly she may need it. -Your a sweet guy; The Panda-

Answer 2

Ugh, tough question okay, here it goes.
She may or may not like you, which of course you gathered that much already. She could be just wanting to be friends, Afraid that if she gets too close to you then she'll want to be with you, trying to break the friendship fast, or simply what she said. I think that it would probably be best to talk to her at church and when she calls, but don't call her until you know for a fact that she's interested. There's no problem with being friends, and considering that she's a real church girl, she probably won't cheat with her boyfriend. So cool your jets for a while and enjoy the friendship that you have with her, and try not to get too clingy, and see where it goes from there.