I found out that my husband has a password to a site on his computer and the password is his name and a female coworker of his and his favorite number. He told me I am wrong and it is stupid for me to be mad about that. He says they are just friends. Of all the words he could have picked why her name next to his and would you be mad???
2007-03-16 12:11:13 · 33 answers · asked by Lisa C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It isn a sports website
2007-03-16 12:18:09 · update #1
how do you have trust and still look out for anything suspicious??That is not trust then
2007-03-16 12:29:01 · update #2
That is kind of odd......hmmmmmm
2007-03-16 12:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i wouldnt go as far as to be mad, but id be suspicious, my passwords have my HUSBANDS name in them, not a co-worker. I'd pay a little more attention to what goes on at work if you know what i mean.
2007-03-16 12:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by dunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be mad! If he says they are just friends take him for his word. You have to have trust in a realtionship, or it wont work. Just keep on the look out for anything suspicious.
2007-03-16 12:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and what is really going on, why would he use a female co workers name as a password unless he is thinking about her. Your right i would be very mad also. Someone would be sleeping on the couch.
2007-03-16 12:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not necessarily. Don't read too much into it. With all the passwords we all need from our bank accounts to our dogs' vet care......we often have to brainstorm for a new password that makes no sense, whatsoever. He likely tried to come up with something close to him (your name, kids, pets, address, etc) but it was already taken.
I've had to go thru this myself and ended up having to write it all down for all the various passwords I need for every little thing on-line.
I wouldn't worry too much about it.
2007-03-16 12:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by moniquebell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad that my husband had to have passwords to keep me out of anything. Those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. My husband and I have no secrets from each other.
2007-03-16 12:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no i would beat his *** a man will tell you any thing .dont believe that trust you gut 98% of the time its not wrong and if it is its better to be safe than sorry dont let him play you for a fool and if he ever gets mad or starts making up stupid excuses or tells you your dumb and **** like that when you confront him about anything that means he is GUILTY yes he is.
2007-03-16 14:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by brittinye007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they must have some kind of relationship, but before you jump into conclusion try to ask him what is his feeling towards this person and how he feels about her maybe they are just best friends or confidants, ask him point blank if he is interested with her and then tell him to introduce her to you and then you confront her and ask the same questions so as you clear the situation. don't tell her about the password incident but if she knows about it then there must be going on behind your back. good luck but don't get mad get even!!!
2007-03-16 12:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What kind of website is it anyway? I think that plays into whether or not you should be suspicious. If it is a work-related site then I'd say no. If it is a porn or dating site, oh yea....be very mad.
2007-03-16 12:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
bitchfit! i would not even give him the chance to explain. there is no way i would go for that. all of my passwords that are names have to do with someone in my family, me, kids, huuby. that is way out of line! you need to confront this female and put a stop to their communication!
2007-03-16 17:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by kchase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset, and I am sorry but she doesn't sound like just a friend, he probably never thought you would figure it out and now that you have, he is denial mode, keep your eyes open for more signs, he sounds like a snake.
2007-03-16 13:51:31 · answer #11 · answered by Vegas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋