ok my best friend in the world who is more of sister's bf is a complete and TOTAL jerk!! she thinks he is just soooooooooo perfect and i can't change her mind. no matter wut guy she sees, to her there is nothing rong w/him even if he is a murder or rapist or drug attict!! i REALLY NEED UR HELP!!!
2007-03-16 12:06:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If this guy is as "rotten" as you seem to feel he is, then this is
the only way to convince her.
Go to the police and ask for the Public Information Report on
(whatever the guy's name is), AND ask if there are any
outstanding warrants on him. Take all of this information to
your best friend when he's NOT around. She may not believe
you, but she can't deny documented evidence. [..some city's
police departments charge $2.00 for these records..]
2007-03-24 05:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really is the starting up of many fights in relationships. I dated this guy for like 9 months and he replaced into the most smooth guy I definitely have ever met! He ought to cry and be all lovey dovey when we were on my own. fairly actually it replaced right into a touch too a lot and fairly of a turn off. even if the minute he replaced into at the same time with his associates, he ought to start up appearing all hard and ought to start up being a jerk to me. i did not care i'd yell at him in the front of his associates. besides adult adult males attempt this because they are SO insecure and SO smooth. you are able to attempt chatting with him til he's blue in the face even if it really is no longer likely to artwork because of his aspect of adulthood. the great suggestion i visit grant you with is that in this example women individuals continuously have the better hand. If he starts off that **** again in simple terms be like "effective i am going to so long" . even as he sees that you'll easily go away and under no circumstances get disillusioned then he will come and chase you again. it really is all an quite effortless sport.
2016-11-26 00:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by hildy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is really a lost cause for you to try to convince your best friend that her boyfriend is a jerk. Sometimes people have to learn the hard way so it seems like this girl is down that road of learning the hard way that this guy is bad news. So all you can do is sit and wait. When she gets knocked down and hurt by this clown, be there for her and don't tell her "I told you so". Just tell her to be more careful the next time around.
2007-03-16 12:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you can't change her mind but if she is in fact your best friend, you can be there for her when he makes her feel bad or hurts her feelings.
You say that to her there is nothing wrong with him even if he's a murderer or a rapist or even a drug addict. Maybe she just needs a wake up call on this guy but allow that to be done by him and not you.
If you want to remain good friends, let him be the one to hurt her and you'll still be there to be her friend when she needs someone to talk to. : )
2007-03-16 12:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, your best friend is caught up! It happens. Don't try to change her mind. It will likely only make her defend him more. You should avoid discussing his behavior, his flaws, etc. Just let him dig his own grave - it will happen!
2007-03-16 12:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by fdm215 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really want to know what to do? OK, here goes:
Mind your business.
Believe me, if you want to keep your friendship, trust her to make her own decisions and stay out of her personal life. If you don't like her boyfriend, don't hang out with her when he's around.
2007-03-16 12:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try sitting down and looking her straight in the eyes and tell her how u feel about her bf. if she still dosent listen try the same thing with him....tell him how u feel about his behavor and how it effects ur friendship with his gf. if all else fails just keep in mind that if hes really that bad they have to break up eventually.....Good Luck :]]
2007-03-16 12:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by fergalicious186<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll have to figure this one out on her own, just be there when the poo hits the fan.
2007-03-22 07:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by Newtron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you shoud first tell your best friend how you feel about him. if she doesn't like you have said. tell her if you guys`s best firned more important than a stupid little boyfriend
2007-03-16 12:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by tamara5646 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's gotta find out herself, if you tell her she'll just get defensive and defend him more.
2007-03-16 12:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋