i notice that i tell myself that i wouldn't make the same mistakes in future because i learned from the past and in the new one i make the same mistake again and again... and it just not me i notices this with my friend. they consistently make the same mistakes. for example they fall in love to fast, give in, take in the mother role, meet jerks, meet uneducated men ( no college degree even worse no high school diploma), come off to strong aka head strong, a little too sexual
2007-03-16 11:45:30 · 10 answers · asked by mickie1108 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Most people tend to be driven by emotion and the need for instant gratification, sit back a little and think about what you want and how best to get there. Being involved with jerks and as you say uneducated men makes you unavailable to meet the right person. I know that sometimes being single sucks, but so does being in a dead end relationship.
2007-03-16 11:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by cimra 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have not got the treatment or skills to help you avoid all that.I know I use to do the same thing. You got to have more self esteem and dignity pride and love your self more then you do. Someday you will get it all together and meet someone who will knock you off your feet and treat you well then you will say why did I pick loosers for so long in my life? I have waisted do much time. You need to learn the skills to help teach you better about your self.
2007-03-16 18:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you shouldn't even listen to me, because i am on my FOURTH stupid marriage and thought i knew what i was doin' this time too, i just think sometimes we fall for that i love you crap a whole lot or something. i know i am way too trusting and still naive even at my old 45 yr old age. and i have been wishing lately that i had NEVER, EVER gotten married. good luck and i hope you figure it out, if you do e-mail me and let me know something.
2007-03-16 18:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by orange sky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are attracted to what we know. If we've only known disfuntional, we are attracted to disfuntional relationships. I can only assume you come from a family who did the same.
2007-03-16 18:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by libra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i needed about two 1/2 years of therapy to deprogram myself. perhaps you may need that. like my therapist says, sick puppies attract sick puppies. then when i started to get my attitude adjusted she said, the rule of thumb is never date anyone you were with before therapy. those guys were attracted to the insecure, needy, co dependent version of you. hope that helps!
2007-03-16 18:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we have not yet learned from those mistakes.
2007-03-16 18:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ĴỤiiČ¥♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because we are all creatures of habit. and alot of people think they are in love and it's just lust, they can't seem to tell the difference.
2007-03-16 18:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by Extra Blue Note 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called low self esteem. Maybe you should work on that.
2007-03-16 18:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well because they have not changed their ways. they need to change
:)
2007-03-16 18:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by happyday to you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad habits die hard
2007-03-16 18:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by Time is of the Essence 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋