Men can not commit to one woman?
I have been in two every serious relationship one was for 6 years and this last one was for 5 years. Both of the times the men told me that they were not ready for marriage. I live with the first one for 3 years had 2 kids with him and he cheated on me with my so called best friend. I lived with the second one for 1 year ½ had one son with him. I came to find out he cheated on me too. Y don’t men just tell us the truth that they r not ready for a stable relationship????
Now my last man is seeing this other woman it didn’t even take him a month after we broke up.
2007-03-16 11:28:11 · 13 answers · asked by Natural 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not all men just like not all women are the same. You didn't mention anything about marrying any of these men that you lived with. If that's the case then that should tell you one thing about them, they cannot commit to marry you so what kind of lifetime commitment would they make? As far as th type of men they are, where did you meet these men - in bars? You can tell a lot about the men you involve yourself with by where you meet them and how, how long you get to know them before you have intimacy, and how long you get to know them before you decide to live with them. If you try to rush into playing house without knowing a person more than a year you tend to end up with the same result - a shorter than lifetime commitment. Look at these last three relationships and see if you might not be at least 50% to blame here because of going to fast before making life changing decisions.
2007-03-16 11:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOmetimes a man's trys to get out of a relationship but finds it easier to cheat so the woman can call it quits because he doesn't know how without messing everything up. But some men like myself are resposible and are committed to one woman at a time. ALso not only men do that women also have their times of infidelity, too. SO don't blame the men for everything.
2007-03-16 11:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't live with men before you get married! You know the old saying" why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free"?
Also think about your kids. How many men do they they know as there dad and why have men coming in and out of your family?
Also don't be a doormat to these jerks b/c they know somehow that they can cheat with you but you will get rid of them but somewhere along the line they must have some sort of screwy reasoning why they can cheat on you. Just think about it.
2007-03-16 11:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a sign of the times things use to be different and its just not men anymore woman are doing the same thing. Give it another 5 years and see how crazy the world gets.
2007-03-16 11:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not true with all men.
stop worrying about why it happened, get comfortable with yourself and move on.
my ex is now married to her divorce lawyer, living in my house (i'm not there), and i'm still paying for it. i found out after the divorce that she was humping him for 6 months before we broke up. yes i know i'm an idiot for still paying the mortgage but my sons need a roof over their head and i'm happy to do it.
2007-03-16 11:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is a man, and he is committed to me, one woman. You are not being careful with the company you keep.
2007-03-16 11:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOYS are like that. No matter how old they are, if they act like that, they are boys. Anyway, a lot of guys THINK they are ready to be monogamous, but when it sinks in, they get scared and start making mistakes. That's biology.
2007-03-16 12:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by cutest_couple_rahrah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I did. Investigate why you keep ending up with people like this. I know I saw red flags with my second (current) husband, but I dismissed them, thinking it was just him having a bad day, or maybe he WAS just talking dirty and nothing more...then I slapped myself and said WTF? He was talking dirty in email and posting ads on DATING SERVICES saying he was up for a few "naughty" things, and since he TELLS me it was all word games, I'm LETTING HIM SLIDE? No more of that. I'm waiting for the third strike, then I'M out!
2007-03-16 11:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl you have been thru a lot with men. My advise. Dont have anymore kids.
2007-03-16 11:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know, that is not the way I perceive and experience men in general.
2007-03-16 12:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by Claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋