i told my ex that i might be pregnant and he fliped.... im only a few days late but im never late and i have been feeling weird for the past few days...
When he broke it off with he really hurt me and idn what to do...
if i am pregnant i want the baby and will love it with all my heart but i want my baby to have a dad! he says he has to much goin for him right now and doesn't no what he will do if i am.... what should i do....
Thanks!
2007-03-16 11:27:07 · 11 answers · asked by Im addicted to the memory of him 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Firstly do a test, and if you are still worried go to your doctor and get a blood test done. This will give you a definate about whether you need to worry or not.
If you are pregnant, then you need to do some serious thinking about what you want to do. Knowing that you may be a single parent, is this something that you really want. If it is then, CONGRATULATIONS.
As for your ex, dont worry too much. If you have a good family support network then you should be fine. I know you want a daddy for your child, but sometimes this just never happens. As long as you love this child unconditionally no matter what that is all the baby will need.
Dont forget to get child support though, and there are agencies around that will ensure you get what you need from the father to help support his child, whether he wants it or not.
Good Luck.
2007-03-16 12:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are keep the baby. No matter if that guy wants the child or not you can still have a father for your child. You never know you could meet someone and fall in love and them love you and they will love your child as if it was there very own. And the real father may just be scared right now but he may come around and even if he doesn't come back to you still be a part of the baby's life.
2007-03-16 18:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by wicca_alison 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this is the way he feels, then it may be better for him to be out of the picture in the short term. Later on, when he has got to grips with the idea, he may just come round - let him go to his cave and cool off for a bit. Remember, if you are pregnant, your emotions will be all over the place. Do a pregnancy test to check for certain. If your ex really doesn't want anything to do with you or the baby, then you need to move on. Your baby will need a mother who is 100% devoted to the future, and believe me, you will need the energy ;)
Good luck!
2007-03-16 18:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Fi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Has he ever thought that you have a life too and have a lot going on in your life too?? Maybe he needs to stop being so selfish!!!! How are you possibly pregnant, if you have already missed your period, you need to test NOW!! If it comes back + then you need to go see an OB/GYN to start with prenatal care!!! If not, you may be so stressed that your period is all off kilter. That happens with our bodies, and can give us a pregnancy scare!! First thing, test yourself, then if you are tell him no matter what you are having this baby and that in 9 months you expect him to be a part of its life, if he chooses not to that is his prob. and there really isnt much you can do about it except take him to court for child support!! GL!!!!
2007-03-16 18:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by lizzieRN13 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you should keep the baby.and just because your period is a few days late dosent mean your pregnant.you need to wait a couple of days and see if your period comes if it dosent then take a pregnancy test,if it comes out negative,and you still havent started your period you need to make an appointment with your doctor right away.your cucle could just be changing.or any stress can cause you to miss your period or it be late.also if you want to be pregnant your body could be sending you false signals,that you when your actually not.and dont worry about the guy right now you need to see if your really pregnant and if you are he'll evenually come around.if not that child still has you to love him/her
2007-03-16 18:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by mommy to a preemie baby girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
It is your body, your life, your decision... if the father does not want to be a part of that, that is his decision too...
Whatever decision you make, remember that it is something you must live with for the rest of your life...
It is quite possible that there is someone else out there (a father figure) who will help you care for this child as if it was there own... in a new relationship?
What I'm trying to say is that You have other options...
As the sayings go :
"Anyone can be a father, It takes someone special to be a Dad"
"There are plenty fish in the sea"
"Keep smiling"
2007-03-16 18:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
First things first, take a test and get a result.
You do what you feel is right. You may want the dad around, but sometimes it's not the best thing. I did great raising my son all by myself. He is well adjusted and a great kid who is get high honors each marking period.
Basically, he has no choice about if he is going to help you out. He has to help you out. Why do guys think they have a choice after the deed is done
2007-03-16 18:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ok...if you are pregnant..be pregnant..be happy about it..dont worry about you ex..cause if you worry you might loose the baby..and believe me..the baby will have a daddy...my ex husband did that to me..got married..got pregnant..he left..and wanted nothing more to do with her...so i did the pregnancy stress free as possible...but now i have a wonderful boyfriend who she calls daddy...ANYONE can be a FATHER..but it takes some one specail to be a dad..he'll realize what hes missin out on...just let it go ..
2007-03-16 18:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Augie B 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well take a test to find out for sure before you go and get yourself all worked up, if it is positive then go from there. being a single parent would be hard but it can be done :) good luck to you.
2007-03-16 19:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by ♥just me♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u r pregnant then jus go on with ur life and make him pay child support and make him see ur baby every other weekend
2007-03-16 18:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by : ) 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋