i have a girlfriend who is married and stay with her hubby. she always say tat she love me more then anything in her life. is this a true love can i trust her
2007-03-16 11:15:13 · 21 answers · asked by ditchmeples d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let me see, you are having an affair with this woman that you love and she says that she loves you as well. Yet she is still married, hasnt even atleast separated from her husband to be with you. So every night when she goes to sleep with her husband she tells her husband that she loves him and will never leave him. While you are laying there wishing she was beside you instead of her husband.
Incase you didnt notice I used the word husband a lot, because she is married! If you two ever really get together, how will you know that she isnt seeing her ex husband, while going to bed with you. In other words the tables would be turned around on you.
2007-03-16 11:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by David K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some questions really answer there self. You deserve better than that you are a beautiful person and you are blocking the way for the person that was made just for you how can you be open for them when you are involved with someone else ask yourself a couple of questions 1. would you want someone messing with your wife ? 2. If she is cheating on him what makes you think she won't cheat on you ? Love yourself enough to know you are worthy of your own WOMAN.
2007-03-16 11:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by dibba 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is she still with her husband? Are they living together or separated? Some couples can't afford a divorce. If they are together you need to tell her that she can't tell you that she loves you more than anything then have her live with another man. Read the novel The Great Gatsby is about your very situation. My final thought is maybe she is afraid of her husband. Is he abusive?
2007-03-16 11:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by Kayla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She don't love you and shame on you for messing with a married woman, she will never leave her husband for you she wants her cake and she is eating it to leave her alone because she has got a home that she will not give up cause if she did she would already be with you .
2007-03-16 11:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that what you get for getting involved with a married woman! Of course you can't trust her- she probably tells her husband that she loves him more than anything too.
2007-03-16 11:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by gagesmomm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why this women sounds perfect she's a cheat and a liar just what you need and just think your a great person too for helping her cheat your a wonderful person and all around good guy........well maybe not so when it comes back to you just don't ask why.....one other question the husband he doesn't own a gun does he?.........BANG!
2007-03-16 11:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loved u she would not put u in this predicament, no u can't trust her with your heart, and chances are u are wasting your life on a woman who will never marry u . so all u really have is a wasted life, waiting on someone who belongs to someone else.
2007-03-16 11:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your girlfriend who happens to be someone elses wife says she loves you more than anything, then WHY is she still with her hubby?????? ask yourself that question..i hope there are no kids involved since they are always the ones who must pay for the adults dumb choices...
2007-03-16 11:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is leading you on. Playing you for a fool. There is no way she is leaving her husband. Plus why the hell would you want her to? If she could leave him for you, she could leave you for the next guy that comes around. Now quit fooling around with married women!!!!!!!!!! Find someone single.
2007-03-16 11:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by Kari R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously not. If she loved you she would be with you. You also have to consider what is she telling her husband when they're alone. She just want her cake and to eat it to. I would leave her alone. Seems to me like she is playing games with the both of you.
2007-03-16 11:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋