Me and my friend have been having sex with each other for couple of months and she has a boyfriend. She knew that I was Bi all along and she said that she wanted to experiment with girls.I told that it's wrong for us to be doing this because he loves her. What should I do? I feel awful.
2007-03-16 11:05:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Stop. It is no longer an experiment. If you and your friend both want to continue this, then she needs to either break up with her boyfriend, or tell him about the two of you (not necessarily that you have already done anything) and ask him if he is ok with it. If he's not, then she has a decision to make about who she wants most.
He may want a threesome... bad idea. Great way to wreck your friendship permanently.
2007-03-16 11:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by Zombie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
While it's never okay to cheat on someone who really cares about you, sometimes it's damn near impossible not to do. But I think the time for "just experimenting" has long expired. It seems like your friend really likes you and either likes her boyfriend too or is just keeping him around as a cover.
Other than that, there's no advice I can think of right now that will help you, but good luck. I hope something can work out for ALL of you.
2007-03-16 18:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by ∞.DS.∞ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
End it. First of all...she's cheating, and you are wrong for enabling her cheatery. Second, 'experiments' always end with someone catching feelings that should have never been given a chance in the first place. And third, you are indangering two relationships at once. Do yourself a favor...break it off.
2007-03-17 04:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by pjonkml 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I've seen men go after the other Woman like she was a man fighting wise in this situation before. If she doesn't have the balls to stop it you should.
Dealing with an angry jealous man thats in love won't be fun for you.
Il put it this way if you had a man and he was boning someother girl and you "purposley" weren't invited how would you feel? Is sex worth your integrity?
2007-03-16 18:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
hi ya she is the one that has the boyfriend,so there's nothing for you to feel bad about, if she comes knocking on you door still then she's not getting what she really wants from the boyfriend. take it as it come and don't feel bad you only live once.
good luck
shell
2007-03-16 19:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by michelle h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you aren't the one cheating, so it really isn't up to you to decide what is right for them. But if it makes you feel uncomfortable to be a homewrecker then I would stop.
2007-03-16 18:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. If it still feels bad to you then stop it, at least until she makes up her mind.
2007-03-16 18:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only should you stop, you shouldn't have started. You knew that she was already in a relationship.
2007-03-16 18:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by goldenbrowngod 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should break it off as you feel awful. This is not surprising as you are an accomplice in your lover's infidelity.
2007-03-16 18:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hell. Are you crazy? You should have the guy join in. I bet he does not turn it down.
2007-03-16 18:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by InfraRed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋