i asked this 3 times and i hardly got any answers. well once again theres this boy and he sits close to me and touches my hair. my friends say that we would be the perfect couple. he also touched my hair once but he swore that he didnt like me but he said that in front of my friends. he said he likes this other girl but i think thats just to get me jealous.he my only friend thats a boy and he talks to me alot
should i go out with him, tell him we could still be friends, or just forget about it.WHAT SHOULD I DO???????/
2007-03-16 10:55:24 · 36 answers · asked by !!!!Just_______!!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You do what ever you want to do...It's your life and no one else is responsible for it
2007-03-16 10:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think this boy does like you. If I were you i'd play him at his own game. If he is trying to make you jealous then do the same to him. Don't act too interested in him (as anything other than a friend) and drop hints that you may be interested in someone else. He'll soon be asking you out - and if not you know its not going to happen and move on. Either that or bite the bullett and just be honest with him - easier said than done though I guess!!
2007-03-16 10:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brother must mature, So at this time you should move forward , life is too short to play games of Jealous or Not, Tag your're It. A real man communicates his desires, interest and needs, effectively to the woman he wants, So you pick what you need The boy, the friend, or a real man
your choice.
2007-03-16 11:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just flirts. If he says that he doesn't like you.. then he doesn't. One of my friends husband flirts with me all the time, but he would never EVER act on it. He's just a flirt like that and always has been since high school.
If you're confused by the situation, if I were you I would swat him away the next time he tries to get touchy-feely. Tell him that's a privilege, not a right. :)
2007-03-16 11:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by Nemesista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he touches your hair, touch it back and look him dead in the eye. Ask him then, in a soft voice, do you really like (whatever the other girl's name is) because I really really like you?
Let him know you don't want to play games with him. He might really like you and is just looking for signs that you do too in order to come out and admit it.
If he says yes I really like so-and-so, forget him. When he comes up to you to touch your hair, smile at him and say, that is a privelege for guys who want me.
Dunno, but that is what I would do and have done.
2007-03-16 11:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by honeysistagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you. The reason he contradicts his feelings for you in front of his friends is most likely because he does like you, and is very interested in you, but perhaps feels that his friends will reflect this relationship with you poorly.
So he tries to be macho and cool with his friends. So its ENTIRELY UP TO YOU. But if he cannot overcome the pressure of taking crap from his friends over you, he is obviously not mature enough to handle a relationship and you should let it go.
2007-03-16 10:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by jprofitt303 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is, how do you feel about him? Do you like him, do you think he's interesting?
Don't date him just because other people told you to, or because you know he likes you (which he obviously does). That sets a dangerous precedent for peer pressure. But if you are interested, then yeah, go for it. If you're not, then make that clear to him and tell him you'd rather just be friends.
2007-03-16 10:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be frank to ask him wheat her he loves you or not. There is no problem in clearing all doubts by just talking straight forward. Even he dint loves you then too you will be good friends and also you can choose other friend as life partner.Do not stay with doubts.
2007-03-24 00:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by Indiannnnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys touch hair to get high. Seriously.
It's hard to advice you something. Tune in and find out what he thinks about.
2007-03-23 20:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ FairLady ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that sounds like a real dilemma, and i know the feeling your in, you have to realise that if you did end up going out with this guy, if it all went wrong and it ended that might be your friendship gone, so be aware of that, but if your not bothered by that then go for it! you have nothing to lose other than that! good luck whatever you do!
2007-03-16 10:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not easy to tell someone in public that you like them; it is just embarrassing. And that is the reason why he has not said anything. I would strongly suggest that you go out with him and give him a chance to interact one on one. Hopefully he will say what he really feels about you.
2007-03-16 10:59:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋