we are friends, I wat to tell her the way i feel but i dont wat to lose her as a friend... Ive been crushing on her for like 3 years now and its starting to eat at me inside, we've never dated, kissed or nething but she shares alot of stuff with me as i do her... cmon ladies gimme your real opinion on this help a brother out
2007-03-16 10:27:53 · 16 answers · asked by hackraver2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You don't want to come on too strong so ask her what if questions to give her a hint. If she asks "Do you like me?", jokingly put it back on her with a smile and say "No, but I had a dream you were feeling something special for me". Her response will let you know if she's open to starting a relationship or opening herself up to having those type of feelings for you.
2007-03-16 10:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her this"I know we're just friends but I really liked u for a long time and I was wondering if u would what to go on a date with me? And if u don't what to I understand but can we still be friends?" But when u tell her this don't ask her out when people are there. Ask her out a a very private place. Good Luck!
2007-03-16 11:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by ashlynnplascencia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all of the other people are on the right track, i like alara, or someone like that's line, just because her relationship didn't work out doesn't mean urs won't, it wasn't the line that messed hers up, it was the people, don't come on too strong, just while ur out, hanging out somewhere, lead the conversation in the direction of couples, talk about some people you know that are together, or cute couples or something, and then say something like " have you ever thought as us as a couple, cause i have, i really like you but i don't want to mess up our friendship, do you feel the same way i do?" or something like that, just DO NOT TRY TO MAKE HER JELIOS!!!!!! if you guys really have the relationship that you described, it'll deffinitly work!!!
~chick w/experience~
2007-03-16 11:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of it relies upon on the lady. i think of alot of girls do no longer seize directly to it early, or there scared or ashamed of it. some in all probability initiate whilst they get sexually lively w/ a guy. i began out early and did it very virtually daily whilst i replaced into youthful/teen. Now i do no longer do it frequently in any respect- as quickly as each and every 2wks to a month(and that i'm no longer getten the real ingredient the two)
2016-10-02 06:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by zaheer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've had feelings for her for 3 years, then odds are she has feelings for you. Also, you know your feelings aren't just a crush, because you've had them for three years. Since it is starting to eat at you, you need to get your feelings out. It is time to ask her, before it is too late and someone else gets her.
2007-03-16 10:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by Tony B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "listen..have you ever thought about having anything MORE than just a friendship? *pause to see reaction* ...with ME?" She will either say yes, or say how much she enjoys being your friend, and doesnt want to screw it up. The one time i got the nerve to tell the guy i liked for 3 years that i liked him is what i said right up there^^^
2007-03-16 10:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush and go directly to tell her ..
first try to know if she likes you "at least" or if she can accept you as a boyfriend..because if you rush and tell her and she says no you'll regret really bad and you'll lose her as a friend..and if you stay tortured like that ..you'll regret too ..
i don't know try to find some way to know if she likes you ..
at least ..do you know the type of guys she likes ..the music she likes ..be the perfect man in her eyes ..
2007-03-16 10:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, in my opinion, I think you should just say, "Sally, (or whatever her name is) We've been friends for a long time, and I dont know how you feel, but I think we should move our relation to the next level." and then let her say something!
2007-03-16 10:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel. if she doesnt like u the same way ask if u can still be friends and move on.
2007-03-16 10:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by swimmerchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER , u nvr know she might feel the same , especially since u share so much
2007-03-16 10:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by pbteenprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋