i'm so lost....i know you can't just chose someone they have to chose you first...but i really like both of these guys.....one is really nice,christian,(which i am to) funny, very atractive, and short(i'm 5'10&1/2(he's like 5'7)) and there is this other guy.....he held my hand in church....pretty dang bold don't you think, yea.he is taller then me...like 6'2-3 tall dark and handsome...but a complete flirt kinda like me...but i'm the jelouse type!>>>>>>>>>>>>>so all i want to know is who do you think i should go with?!{but like i said i cant choose....but who should i spend more time around? advise whould be awsome!!!!!}please help......thnx for the patiance yall
2007-03-16 10:09:58 · 22 answers · asked by sarah h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Flirty and jealousy dont go together. Pick guy # one!
2007-03-16 10:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems to me at least. That you want the best of both worlds. You want the first one for the good person he is and the second one to complete your bad side let's say. As most of us know or will sooner or later know. One has to compromise what one rather have a good person one can count on in good or bad. Or give into ones reckless side and pay the consequences later... I'm sorry if you don't understand what I mean but you didn't state your age...so I don't know if this is to deep for you.
2007-03-16 10:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have to make an immediate choice? Maybe you can try to keep it light with both guys for a little while. Go on a few dates with each and see how things go. Until you commit to someone this is OK. You can even tell each of them that you are not QUITE ready to settle on one guy. They should respect that, and if they want you to make a decision, either guy can tell you that he's looking for something exclusive. You can jump of that bridge when you come to it though.
2007-03-16 10:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by danl747 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who says ya have to pick? If you really want to choose, then go with the one that you feel more chemistry with. No matter what, things will work out the way they were meant to on thier own. I would just let them ask you out and see where that takes you. Don't try too hard. Make them want you. Best of luck!
2007-03-16 10:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by Acid Burn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Number one the other guy is just trying to see how far you will go in church so he go further when you are alone. I know he's good looking and holding hands in church excited you but it want last. He will use you till he gets tired of you and finds another to lead on, then he will dump you like excess baggage.
2007-03-16 10:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend time with both of them for a while. dont hook up with both of them, just be their friends. See which one you have more in common with and would rather date. Date him but stay friends with the other. that way, if things don't work out with you and your first choice, u always have the other one to fall back on. :]
2007-03-16 10:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by Kayla S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go with the first one. I don't really like a guy that flirts so much because that means he will be like that with everyone. Even though the first guy is short, he isn't that much shorter than you. Let the other guy calm down and see what's up with shorty.
2007-03-16 10:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Which one have known the longest? Which one treats you better? Which one do you see more often? Which one is more romantic? you have to ask yourself questions like these to help you in your time of need. W.W.J.D (just kidding a little christian to christian talk.)
2007-03-16 10:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date both ;)
Then toss the one that isn't working
I would pick the 1 if you're jealous though
2007-03-16 10:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by Slifer! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only you can answer this question i'm in the same boat as you except i'm actually dating both of them and i am the only one who can make the decison just follow your heart because it never lies but your head always will good luck
2007-03-16 10:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You like both and both like you. It is not love as yet so what is the hurry to choose.You do not have to choose just yet.
2007-03-16 10:15:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋