idk whats wrong with me its like ive had quite a few girls ask me out.. but ive always rejected because im not interested in them.. and when i am interested in some1 they are either taken str8 or not interested in me. idk whats going on.. am i afraid of change? or what? (o by the way im a lesbian and im 15.) i dont even know why this is bothering me so much all of a sudden.....
2007-03-16 10:07:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i think ur having trouble tuning in to ur sexuality. if ur attracted to someone go for it. if they dont like u that way then move on. try to go for someone who has the same interests at heart. dont go for losers who will break ur heart. try to b interested. u never know. u could fall 4 someone that u never thought u could like
2007-03-16 10:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're truly not a lesbian, you just think you are, hence the apprehension of 'any' girl you possible could 'get with'. It's like this...while you think you find women attactive, you think that makes you a lesbian when in fact it only makes you a person that appreciates beauty. Since deep inside you already know this, anytime you actually could be with a woman is met with confusion and inner turmoil so you find those one's 'not attractive or not your type'. I suggest you focus more on your studies at 15 rather than a date since you have YEARS ahead of you to worry about that stuff and a very short period of time to take advantage of school.
Good luck in whatever you decide.
2007-03-16 10:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by ark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah - the chief complaint of every gay/lesbian on the face of the earth. They even talk about it in Torch Song - the three categories we tend to be attracted to:
1) Terminally straight.
2) Experimenter.
3) Just in for the weekend.
You know, dating is just a *****.
2007-03-16 10:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by Shrieking Panda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you,you seem like the type, to not settle for just anything or anybody.I will say,change is always good and it helps build charter I would not suggest you doing something you are not comfortable with.But you will never know what it is that you want unless you try something you think you don't want.
2007-03-16 10:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sidetracked0260 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the real world. The ones we wont always are taken or straight. Don't worry about it sweety because there are a lot of girls out there for you. plus at your age a lot of girls don't even know they are gay. Don't let it bother you because you will have your whole entire life to stress about dating.
Good Luck Sweety, You will find your Ms. Right!
2007-03-16 10:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably becuase your only 15 and not many people are "out of the closet" yet. People in my school didnt come out until junior year of highschool and some not until college, maybe you should date a guy, maybe your not sure what orientation you are yet.
2007-03-16 10:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by baba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So?....why does going out with someone, have to be all about YOU and a relationship with them?
Can't you just go out with someone just to be a friend and have FUN.....without looking for something for YOU in it? It usually happens that when you are not always looking, and out socializing with friends that you meet that special someone.
2007-03-16 10:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to do what is right for you the right person will come around eventually but you are still young you have alot ahead don't let it bring you down...good luck.
2007-03-16 10:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by Maria Laura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is life i dont know you just have to wait for the right person i waited 6 months to have my man ask me
2007-03-16 10:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe God is trying to tell you it's against his laws to live this kind of lifestyle. Try praying about it!
2007-03-16 10:12:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋