I have a 16yr old daughter who is sneaking around with a 19yr old illegal mexican who has no job, no schooling and probably no home. She let him come through her bedroom window at night so they could have sex. I thought I had put a stop to all the contact but obviously it is still going on.She has been moved into my room and I visit her at school 3 times a day. I am exhausted trying to keep an eye on her.
2007-03-16 09:56:50 · 18 answers · asked by iworshipdaily 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
PLEASE REPORT HIM AND SEND HIM HOME!we have enough problems of over population cuz all mexican women do is keep having babies and dont let your daughter be the next person pregnant by a mexican.nothing racist against mexicans(at least not the legal ones) but we shouldnt have to press 1 on the phone to hear english....seriously.thats disgusting...
2007-03-17 08:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by ♥sexy_love♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A private school will not change anything, and you cant go against it too hard or she will start rebelling. Maybe just explain to her that it upsets you, it is not right for her age and tell her to think of the consequences! pregnancy, STD s, yer. Otherwise your could (as the above said) have an investigator keep tabs on her. Moving her into your room is probably a good idea until you sit her down and talk about this. But if you really want to go to extremes, you could have her bf locked up, for she is underage, and he is illegal.
2007-03-16 10:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by doggio_yodog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him if he is illegal and besides that she is underage notify the police. Get a restraining order on her. Send her to bording school. You are the parent take charge. If you have to notify her teacher and principal of the man and have them keep tabs on her. If they give her free time during the day ask them to stop that. Hire a babysitter and pay them to stay with her 24/7. Take away her freedom... phone....internet....all means of communication.... until she realizes who's boss. Make her come right home after school. And make she knows your doing this because you love her. And let that guy know that the next time he comes near your daughter you are going to drop him off in tiajuana personally!!!
2007-03-20 09:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by lyndsyherard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter feels like she is in control. There is probably nothing you can do right now. But I have one question...Is she on birth control? Once a teenager starts dating older guys only a bad experience can stop them....Don't let that bad experience be pregnancy(You can help avoid that much)
I tell you this b/c im 16 and 9 1/2 months pregnant. Trust me...If he doesnt have a job...then her life will be out the window.
2007-03-16 13:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by augustadiva06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can call the police and have him arrested for trespassing and statutory rape. If he is illegal call border patrol have him deported.
Thats what my mom did to me when i was 16. I never had anyone sneak through my window again.
Yes i was mad at my mom but now that i look back im so grateful that she cared enough about me to do somthing so i didn't ruin my life over some horny guy
2007-03-16 10:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by Learn2LoveMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help her. She might hate you now, but she will thank you later on down the road. I'm 15. I know how teenagers are. At least talk to her about birth control. You don't want her having a baby with a guy who has no life, and ruining her own. Do w/e you have to do. If she is living with you she has to abide by your rules.
2007-03-16 16:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know she probably won't like this, but you can get her the Disney Mobile cell phone wich has a tracking device to know where exactly she is at all times. Just don't tell her about the tracking device thing in the cell phone or she might ruin it!
2007-03-16 10:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by dancer_luvr_crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Have you thought of putting her in a private school? Aside from that, all you can really do is have an investigator keep tabs on her. You can also have the boyfriend arrested since she is underage.
2007-03-16 10:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by Dizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's sixteen and she's acting like she's three....isn't it sad that you have to treat her like a three year old? Tell her how you feel, have other adults help you out as well. I think that you are being a good parent....we need more good parents, don't go away!
2007-03-16 14:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her to juvie next time she sneaks out and don't bring her home when you go to court. Leave her there for a while.
2007-03-16 11:02:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋