One of my ex-BFFs loathes me. I accidentally ruined her relationship with one of her other best friends. She hates me so much, and I want to be friends again. It’s not an ordinary fight. She’s said things to me that made me cut myself, and I said and did some pretty mean things also. She’s one of my few real friends, and I cant go on without her. Literally, there’s no point to do that. So I just lost 2 of my great friends, all because of some stupid drama. I’m so depressed right now and I just want to go back and change things. What can I do to make me feel better, and also regain my friendship wit her?
And if she’s reading this, then I want her to know that I’m very very sorry and just want another chance.
2007-03-16 09:52:11 · 5 answers · asked by Argiiii. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
y won't u tell her that if u really mean it.tell her that u didn't mean to hurt her and that ur very very very very sorry.i bet she will forgive u.i will
2007-03-16 09:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Beauty 2 the next level!!!!!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First she did not make you cut yourself you did that because you have very poor skills when it comes to handling stress. That is not her fault or yours but it is a matter that you need to have attended to right away. Talk to a responsible adult and let them know what you are doing and get some help. The other issues will clear up when your self esteem is improved. Good luck, it's a dark day not a dark life you can get through all of this don't give up. Get some help it's very important.
2007-03-16 09:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, stop hurting yourself physically - this only makes you look unstable and may scare her if anything. Secondly, you need to give this some time because this is all that you both need to help forget about the situation. Attempt friendship SLOWLY and be careful about what you do or say and things should get right eventually. If you still don t feel happy talk to a counsellor - it helps trust me. Good luck
2007-03-16 09:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to tell her you are sorry and want to be friends again it always works with my bff
2007-03-16 10:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ella F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek help for your histrionic personality disorder. Meanwhile, give your friends and yourself some space and time.
2007-03-16 09:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by OTTO 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋