when i'm going to have sex with a guy, I have hair "down there" but keep it trimmed. what if he is turned off or doesn't like it....how am i supposed to know....i don't wanna turn him off right before we get into bed....
2007-03-16 09:51:58 · 8 answers · asked by mariah s 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
he's a white boy with red hair, lol. yes i'm AA.
2007-03-16 10:24:41 · update #1
You know he wants you to shave when he says "girl, get rid of this bush already!" Lol just kidding. I think if he wanted you to get rid of the hair, he would of said so. I'm guessing by your Avatar that you're African-American. Well, most of my friends are African-American, and when they talk about what they like in a girl, all of them say that they like some hair "down there". I wouldn't worry about it, if he doesn't want it, then he should be man enough to say so. Good luck.
2007-03-16 10:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
He's a white boy with red hair? Most white guys don't have red hair. I'm not really sure what his preference would be. I do know that more than 85 percent of men prefer women with no hair down there. Just shave it all off with an electric shaver. An electric shaver doesn't cause very much irritation.
2007-03-16 22:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang! if he's gonna have a fussy over p`ussy because of something minor like hair, which is a normal body condition; leave that posh, high-class, too demanding dawg alone.
Be sure to base your relationship on communication and doing your communication process if you find out he's shallow like that leave him alone.
Don't get me wrong I'm not saying to shave or don't shave to enhance the sexual experience [that is a little turn on for me-both ways]. And when you have a line of communication open then y'all can agree on that condition, mutually. But if he's gonna base sexual relationships on that condition reconsider where y'all stand and what you want.
2007-03-16 16:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
well im geussing ut young and ther for attracting the young male population, and if thats true then u proably want it shaved. (or even better have it waxed)... trimmed should be ok, but again i recomend having no hair. for exsample, take porn stars... they pretty much all have no hair down there.. and of course i think they would know what men like .. lol so like i said go with NO HAIR
2007-03-16 17:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't say what you prefer. It's your body and your choice. Personally I would never shave for anyone under any forseeable circumstances. It's itchy and high maintainance. But it's your choice, not his! If he's so superficial that a little hair turns him off, then he ain't good enough for you.
2007-03-16 18:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's not gonna be looking at your hair down there, unless he's gonna go won down there with something other than his piece.
Me? Unless its all hairy like a rainforest, i couldnt care less.
2007-03-16 17:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by JusticeManEsq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that shouldn't even be cause for concern. If he really don't like it the way it is he will say something.
2007-03-16 17:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by milittleguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it looks a lot better completely shaved. Send before and after picks and I'll let you know
2007-03-16 17:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by maneone22 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋