I live in a majority white area but I only want to date Black and maybe Latino girls and I don't date White girls. Is that wrong or racist?
2007-03-16 09:32:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I don't think there's a problem with preferring to date a person who is of a particular race. The problem might be why you've excluded other races. If you exclude others because of prejudice, being shallow, stereotypes or racism - then that would be wrong. However if you simply prefer the culture or appearance of a particular person - then I believe that's fine.
2007-03-16 09:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Not at all, in my opinion. I would date anyone but would prefer to marry a latino and I don't think that's racist.
2007-03-16 16:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by ☺SDgurl☺ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so at all. I prefer to date only white men. Actually I'm married now (to a white guy). I can guarandamntee you that if I had posted this question, people would see my avatar and IMMEDIATELY start yelling "racist racist racist!" at me. THAT is wrong.
2007-03-16 16:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on why you won't date them. Everyone envisions the ideal person in their mind, but there might not be a color attached. If you simply prefer darker complected women that's one thing, but you limit yourself by not being open to any possibility for love.
2007-03-16 16:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by karen W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not! But don't ever turn someone away simply because of their race! I know it sounds like an oxymoron but think about it, if you make friends with someone you may eventually find that you care for them much more. Don't ever limit yourself, we are all PEOPLE, and we all love.
2007-03-16 16:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by tlimsisnw7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. attraction is a personal thing.
But once you JUDGE people based on color or race - then youre a racist.
2007-03-16 16:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by Willis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has preferences, date who you want/are attracted to. It's not something you decided, it's innate.
2007-03-16 16:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong its what you prefer or attracted to.
2007-03-16 16:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ain't on shame in your game!!!!
2007-03-16 16:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by Luis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but its unusual
2007-03-16 16:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋