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2007-03-16 09:08:57 · 47 answers · asked by blackvioletred 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Replace them with someone else would be the fastest, but probably not the best.

Lean on your friends, spend more time with them and with your hobbies. Find new hobbies, keep your mind occupied.

You won't be able to forget them completely that quickly, but you can reduce the number of times you think about them.

2007-03-16 09:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

I see a lot of answers that say time. Time doesn’t fix anything nor is it a fast way to forget. Trying to fix something fast, in this case probably a broken heart, will tend to lead to more problems in the future. Quick and easy is how you make a microwave dinner, not how you treat yourself, so take care of yourself and think positive. I agree with the comments that you need to cut off all communication and rid yourself of things that hold strong memories of that person such as pictures, but be careful how you feel now may not be how you feel in two years when you want look back with fondness instead of despair. It may be best just to put them in a place not easily accessible. Spend time with people, go to new places, and do new things, even if you don’t want to. You can’t be thinking of one person if you are thinking of someone else.

2007-03-23 10:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by hollingto 1 · 0 0

Good luck. It depends if you really had feelings for that person or not. If you didn't, just a replacement or keeping yourself busy will do the trick. If you did, and I mean the kind that you would consider marrying or did marry, you may never. Seriously. The longer you have committed the energy - mentally, emotionally, and physically - the longer it would take to get over that person. Think about this: The current rate of divorce in our country is 50%. The current rate of re-marries that end in divorce is a staggering 33%. What caused that? It can be for different reasons. However, getting over someone else is one of those reasons. My point is there is something liggering after a serious (see my defintion above) relationship that just may linger.

G'luck

2007-03-23 08:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 2 0

How To Forget Someone

2016-11-02 07:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by atleh 4 · 0 0

Losing someone, whether from death, divorce, separation, or a break up, there is not a "Fast" way to forget someone. The truth is, people make imprints in our lives and they are hard to forget. When you truly love someone, their memory will stick with you forever. I have learned not to stop loving someone because that is when the pain begins. I have had to just love them from afar and accept the fact that they will not be physically in my life anymore. As time passes, the intensity of the feelings do subside. There are two constant things in life....Time and Change. It takes time to change.

2007-03-24 05:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by Everlasting 1 · 0 0

Do yourself a favor and do not try to forget someone. Just forgive them and move on but remember the little things so if they happen again with the next relationship a red flag should appear. No matter how it ended or why, all we have are our memories and somewhere there should be some good to remember as well. If your not able to forgive them, they will win and it will bother forever, but when in time you will be able to forgive, you will be able to move on freely.

Sometimes forgiving is hard, just remember all the times you had asked for forgiveness yourself, or when you wanted or wished you had. You will not forget but you will move forward and grow very quickly once you are able to forgive.

2007-03-23 10:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Birdhunter 1 · 0 0

I don't recommend forgetting. Instead just spend some time by yourself thinking about how you came into this situation so you do not make the same mistake(s). After that all will be well and you will be ready to move on. If you choose not to take this step, you might find yourself in a rebound situation with the same end results.

2007-03-16 09:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hello,

This is one I struggle with myself. I haven't found an easy answer so much as a variety of techniques. First, tell yourself that you will get on with your life. With that goal in mind, you find ways to make it come true. Like others have said, try to keep yourself busy but don't necessarily overdo it. The feelings will come back in ebbs and flows. You may need to be by yourself sometimes to cry, yell, scream, or whatever; but try not to alienate others or wallow in the past. I'm 37 and I still find myself occasionally thinking back to people from years ago; so I just have a moment and move on from there. At any rate, I hope that helps and I hope you'll be OK. Take care.

John

2007-03-24 05:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by John M 1 · 0 0

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2015-08-23 09:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by Stephenie 1 · 0 0

You can't forget someone very fast if they were anyone special in your life! Time does heal though and you can look forward to better times. Go out occupy tour mind and no don't find someone else fast becuase you could be stting yourself up for failure.

2007-03-23 04:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by safetyusa 6 · 2 0

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