My best friend just moved to Kentucky. Today was her last day at school. I am crying my eyes out because I don't know what to do know. I am not going to try to replace her either. *major sob*
2007-03-16 09:04:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This happened to me before, except I was the friend moving away. Even though you may be sad, you can't dwell on things you can't change. Your bff and you are going to live in different places now, and you just have to accept that. Hang out with some of your other friends and try to distract yourself, BUT
Never, never, NEVER think your friendship is over! There are tons of ways you can still maintain it...
1) call your friend every week and ask her how's life, what new friends she has, how's school...etc.
2) Send her snail mail or emails, or talk to her on AIM. That's one great way to still keep in touch!
3) Send her a birthday gift every year, or a gift just because. It'll show that you still care!
4) Visit her during your breaks or summertime. That way you can still be together and have bonding time in person.
I have done this for 7 years, and my best friend and I are still as close as ever. In fact, I'm going to visit her this summer. GL! Don't feel down :)
2007-03-16 09:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by i love love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How far away are you from Kentucky? Is it possible to visit in the summer? Maybe she'll come back and visit you for a week in the summer.
I know it's hard. My daughter had 3 friends move away during her schooling. You'll find another friend; even if you don't think you will. In the meantime, try planning a trips.
2007-03-16 09:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ya Ya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch as best as humanly possible for the two of you. When you have no school, take long trips to see her. As time goes on you will let her go a little more. Take this opportunity to try to grow with another friend. I'm sure that you have more friends. I'm not saying replace her, but try to become better friends with your other friends.
2007-03-16 09:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by The Answerer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i know exactly how you feel right now,.... my best friend is moving to tennessee in a week and i can't get over it. we live in pa so it is quite the trip. I don't know exactly what to do either.. but i'm trying to spend all my free time with her. and i'm gonna fly her up here for my birthday and stuff. i don't know like if you are reall best friends you will see her again. just stay in touch. keep of picture of you two in your room. and just remember all the good times that have happened. i can't stop crying either. but hopefully everything works out.
2007-03-16 09:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by meghan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write to her, e-mail her, or visit her. And you can't replace her because every friend has a special place in your heart that no one else has.as for the being sad, just spill your guts in a journal, talk to someone, and read or watch a funny book or movie. Think about all the fun times that you had with her and be thank-full for them. laugh at all the funny things you guys did together, and say to yourself," at least i got to know her as long as i did."
2007-03-16 09:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Draco Malfoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email her, call her, visit her if that's feasible. Write her letters. The pain will lessen with time. even though right now you feel like it never can.It really will. Find someone, a real person, who you can cry with and let your feelings out to. Do Instant Messaging with her.
2007-03-16 09:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by cowabunga mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, but not her. All these tears are meaningless as it won't make her move back. Get on with life and email her, call her and whatever.
2007-03-16 09:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋