Okay, it's really complicated, but I'll try and make it quick.
All I want to do is make people happy..you know...be important to someone...But I'm not...no one carea bout me...and there's no way I can think of to change it...What am I supposed to do to make people care about me? And it's not like I don't try.
I try to be a nice guy, to try and cheer people up, ect.
But they still don't...and I don't wanna go on living like this...being...useless...and unimportant...blah blah blah...
2007-03-16 08:59:49 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Before you make other people happy, you have to make yourself happy. I think your a nice guy, just dont try too hard.!
2007-03-16 09:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by DramaMama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luv yourself first an people will b drawn 2 your vibe. U need 2 show cofidence and learn 2 not take life serious(lol) GOD LUVS U and i am sure u have family members, teacher r friend who cares 4 u. Happiness is a state of mind from within-if u don't c yourself as a fun-loving, attractive,caring person than no-one else will either.
2007-03-24 04:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life do sucks most of the time, we all know that. being important to somebody?... hmmmm i bet you are important to someone, don't look for something in return- if you give them happiness and good laugh you should be proud cause you make someone else's life a "happy day" that's what matters the most, maybe that person that laughs with you have a "sucky life too". Think about this it might be easy for you to show your appreciation to someone but not everybody is like you. I feel that way sometimes too, but i look back again and i'll tell myself i know someone out there cares for me. Have faith- don't pitty your self too much. Talk to me when you feel sad. Take care.
2007-03-16 09:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by lovelydheng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...I'll be your friend...if you ever need to make someone laugh or just talk im me and I'll be there for you. You have probable just been unlucky and have been meeting the wrong people. Sometimes we go through rough times in life and then all of a sudden things get better. Just be patient and keep on being yourself...you'll see things will get better. No one is happy all the time.
2007-03-16 09:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by Melina A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Noone is useless and unimportant. Sometimes people forget to appreciate the ones they love the most. Fact of life, get your act together, make some friends, join activities if your still in school, just be outgoing... whether you want to be or not... don't let them bother u... And Pllleaseee cheer up... !! :)
2007-03-23 09:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude i know what you mean, life does suck sometimes... Ive been where you are, but dont worry. Things get better, just be confident in yourself and people will respect that... Also some people are just too carried away by what is wrong in their own lives that they dont stop to think about other people... Its sad, but in the end im sure things will get better for you. You seem like a good person, good luck!
2007-03-23 03:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by my spill canvas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, I know how you feel. Like no matter how nice you are to people they still don't accept you? It's really hard. It happens to me all the time.
All you have to do is keep on going. There is no magic potion that's going to make people like you. All you have to do is keep on being friendly and nice, and people will eventually be drawn to you. Just never pretend to be someone you're not...
I've realized that not everyone's going to care about you. Even some of your "closest" friends aren't going to always be there for you. I think only family can truely love and care about your welfare. Blood is thicker than water. I know it really hurts. I've been in your position plenty of times...like I just don't fit in with people cause they just leave me out and don't care. Try to make an effort to get to know people and just talk to them. Sometimes you have to make the first move and ask them to hang out. Your friendships will grow from there, and that's how people will start to care about you.
2007-03-16 09:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by i love love 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It truly sounds like you really need a close friend, and I know just the right person.............yourself ! Get out and enjoy yourself, be yourself, quit worrying what people think. If all the people in the World were gone, it would be ' no problem ', because I enjoy what I like, everything else is, well, second place, Good Luck and God Bless !!
2007-03-23 13:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzypetshop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you mean and I think you're just suffering from low-self esteem. Sometimes I feel like people are just annoyed by me, and that no one listens, but if you keep a journal it really helps release all those feelings. Maybe show yourself some love and other people will too.
2007-03-23 13:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you’re not alone. Most people have asked these questions. We want to understand the larger purpose and meaning of our lives. Without purpose, living day to day can become tedious and empty.
Fortunately, there are answers to these questions—answers that can give you a sense of purpose and help you find lasting happiness. Answers such as:
* You are a child of God.
* Before you were born, you lived as a spirit with God, your Heavenly Father.
* You came to Earth to learn to be more like God.
* When your life on Earth is over, you can return to live with your Heavenly Father.
2007-03-22 01:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋