Shes a born again Christian who knows she aint no angel,I'm a saved christian too and know we sin daily thats why we confess.Thats why constantly should keep in prayers.I know what proverb chapter five say about adultery but it also says in verse 18:-Let your FOUNTAIN be blessed and rejoice IN the wife of your YOUTH.The whole chapter warns actually about adultery but goes on to say that and more.To each is own is how I'd put the interpretion.She's wants to chase destiny with me and on the rebound,I know how easy it is for her to abstain from sex,shes a virgin,its not easy blocking out the feeling of wanting some for me and thats until we wed.Again how do I get her to understand my hunger.Its her I wanna marry in the coming future so why not just give me some right now?Hollaback ya'll and thanx for even taking your time to think it out with me.
2007-03-16 08:54:34 · 3 answers · asked by Blackfeet 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
God wants you to wait until you have a fully mature, commited relationship before you have sex. He knows what's best for you; you don't. But even I can see that you and your girlfriend have a ways to go before you're ready to get married, so what makes you think you're ready for all the good things that come with being married? If you were truly ready to marry this girl, you wouldn't be talking about sex in terms of "wanting some" and her "giving you some." Sex shouldn't be about what you get out if it, it should be about what you want to give to the person you love. You also already know that she's made an important decision to remain a virgin for as long as she has (possibly longer), and if you love her as much as you say you do, your goal should not be to be the one to break the promise she's made, but to respect her choices and her body as much as she does.
2007-03-16 09:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by corny 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, first. Learn to type. Im sorry, but I hardly got what you were talking about till the end.
You said your Christian. You should have christian beliefs if your claiming to be Christian. One Christian belief: No sex till your married! You can't go with part of the Bible. You have to believe and act on it all. Its not right to go around saying your Christian and not acting like it/ not believing in your religion. It discredits the other real Christians.
Seriously, a little self control, wait till you get married.
2007-03-16 16:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by Will Bleed For Kicks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh... good luck with that?
2007-03-16 15:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by Haiti Cherie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋