I love my girl alot and she knws it too.She knows its her I wanna marry but doesnt wanna give me some until after the wedding.Whats crazy she's 17 and I'm 20 years young.A wedding wont come around anytime soon,probably till I'm 25 coz financially I'm inept momentarily and if theres gonna be one then I want to do it right.I know that her virginity is a source of pride to her parents and I feel lucky I'm the one she loves.Virgins tend to be stable and trustworthy people when it comesdown to it assuring rest that its me she'll always want once I take it and wont have to worry about her whereabouts.Shes my best friend and my everything.I know I wouldnt cheat on her but I could catch blueballs any minute.I dont see how we can do everything but make love coz we're sure we were meant for each other.She also knows about me asking ya'll this.I just want the trick behind having myself in her.Having is mind she's a virgin and a stable person determined.What should I say or do to get some?
2007-03-16 08:40:01 · 9 answers · asked by Blackfeet 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Respect her wishes or leave the relationship. Being a virgin at 17 now a days is something to be proud of. If you don't think you can wait, then you need to move on to somebody else.
2007-03-16 09:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by Caleb's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do know ppl who have waited-girls AND guys-till marriage.
I plan to. It sucks b/c guys aren't interested in me at this stage in the game and the ones who are think they can persuade me otherwise. It's a personal and spiritual decision. Giving your body away to someone is the deepest kind of intimate connection you can have with another human being. Why would you give that away to anyone outside of the bond of marriage where it's not just "I promise I love you and I'll always be with you, now let's make out and have hot sex"
it's
"I love you, I'm officially bond to you, and even on those bad days when we're fighting after I've come home from a long day at work and have to help the kids out with their last-minute school projects, I still wanna be there for you and sacrifice personal desires because
*true love is about desiring to make the other person happy*."
If you really love her, you'll wait for her and put a ring on her finger and have the rest of your lives to enjoy that intimacy the way it should be enjoyed.
2007-03-16 08:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by abby j 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Blueballs my horse's hind end - you're trying to rationalize cheating on her.
If she's all that you say, she deserves better than you, and you better get used to dating only your right hand until you get married.
And that should be only after she's graduated from college, has a job, and has lived on her own for at least a year, paying all her own expenses - rent, car, food, utilities, medical costs, car insurance, everything. The same goes for you. This will give both of you an idea of what it takes to be an independent, self-sufficient person in the world today.
2007-03-16 08:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave that relationship. You're 20 and she's 17? What are you doing? First of all- it would be illegal to have sex with her. Second of all- she's probably still in high school and you're through with that. Those are two different worlds. You need to find someone your age. And if you feel you love a 17 year old, then you're probably not emotionally mature enough anyway. Find someone else and get over this girl. That's it.
2007-03-16 08:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by twinortiz 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do you want her to get pregnant or not? That should answer your question. Let her keep her virginity most girls don't have that anymore you should be proud of her. I think that if you can make it through this time in your life with her then you guys should do well in the future.
Good Luck!
2007-03-16 08:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by bookworm87 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should say "I'll be happy to wait till we're married.," And MEAN IT!
She's a 17 year old kid, and she wants to WAIT! Why would you be selfish enough to take that away from her?
2007-03-16 08:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by kiwi 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No matter what hair-brained scheme you may come up with, BE PATIENT! Frustration will only make it worse.
2007-03-16 08:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by mac man 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
are we really in the year 2007? hold on, lemme go get the calender.
2007-03-16 08:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
You can wait, can't you? Lol.
2007-03-16 08:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋