I cant breath, I cant think...HELP from an Aquarius Response please?

Question

I'm trying to build a strong realtionship with someone, But i dont want to seem to pushy...which i havent really called this person, or been around them..and ill text them once every 2 or 3 weeks....but i think about them every day of my life and wonder what they are doing...and when i think im about to call them or whenever i talk to them I litterally cant breath and i need oxygen...Ive never been like that with anyone in my life...and im scared that if i try to get close i would run them away....I'm really cool and laid back with it ...but deep down inside i just want to exsplode and my head hurt from thinking about them...and they are an aquarius so i cant seem too pushy or thats a nexxxxt for me......should i try to build a bond...should i take it month by month...what kind of things should i bring up as far as adventurous activities?

Answer 1

Um...

First, does this person like you in that way?

I have always said that I would run far and fast from any signs on intimacy but that is because I had a rough childhood and true love and intimacy frightens me. Therefore, I would have to start off as good friends with a person.

Second, be yourself. I hate that I have to second guess myself because I can feel someone 'shading' who they are. Also, know that most Aquarians are loud and outspoken so if you let them do all the talking, they start to think that they are talking too much and it brings a great deal of crap to the table. At least, it does for me.

Third, astrological signs aside, it all depends on the person. All people, myself included, desire to be wanted and loved but it depends on their lives how they'll respond. Taking it slow is good but don't be so cool that they don't have a clue you're interested. Put yourself out there and find ways to commmunicate without being pushy. I love to receive emails and texts from my friends on a regular basis.

Good luck!

Answer 2

for an aquarius, taking is slow seems to be the right thing. I know first hand how difficult it is because I dated one for three years. I'm naturally a bit pushy (I'm an aries), so it was hard for me when I would push and he would withdraw.

it does sound like you've certainly got it bad for this person. I think the best advice for right now is to try to be good friends with them. most of the aquarians I know won't date just anybody. they like to establish a solid friendship before they progress onto relationship. by becoming friends with this person, you not only get to spend more time with them (instead of a text message here or there), but you also get to work towards what you want - a relationship.

so, definitely build a bond. it strengthens ANY relationship really, not just one with an aquarius.

when it comes to activities, talk more with this person and find out what they like. listen to the things they tell you to get a better idea of things that they would like to do, then put the pieces together to come up with interesting things to do. most aquarians I know are big into the arts, music, and more culturally progressive things.

good luck!

Answer 3

I'm an aquarius and find this to be SO true! Hope this helps.

Mental fireworks are the sexiest kind for the oft-overflowing Water Bearer, and they are captivated by a lover who shares their quest for a better world. An intuitive partner who is willing to look outside the box in the hopes of becoming a more complete being will win an Aquarian's heart straightaway. The Water Bearer is a flirtatious charmer who is at home with many but also appreciates the pleasures created by two.

The key to real passion for Aquarians, however, is in connecting with that lover who can make vulnerability safe for them. Aquarians are so often busy caring for the masses that they forget about themselves! A lover who can help the Water Bearer get in touch with their innermost feelings and teach them to put the analyzing aside will tap into a torrent of emotion waiting to be released. The ideal Aquarius soul mate is an Einstein with lots of soul.

Answer 4

What is the relationship between the aquarius and your problem?? Do you really beleive in 2007 that stars have or ever had influence on us?

Regarding tyour problem, please do not loose your time wondering what to do... Go ahead, move, call, text or mail, if you don't nobody will for you! this is an answer from an aquarius... Good luck

Answer 5

you got it back for this air sign......do they know you like them this much,or what/ do they give you any sign they like you too?
what sign are you?
basically, aquarius is the "baby' of the zodiac....like baby new year......
so you got to be their 'mommy"....care for their needs, must have intelligence, etc....
since they are an air sign, they change with the wind.....hard to keep on "earth" and grounded....be flirty and yet shy.....like lots of eye contact and smiles.....with them , it is the chase that attracts them most......
goodluck.....

Answer 6

i think dis is year da year for all us aquarians