how do u stop yourself from killing yourself?

Question

I'v e been so depressed and I dont know whjat to do. I hate my life so much so very much I dont want to live anymore.

Answer 1

I am sorry to hear you feel that way. Don't do anything that will have a permanent effect, you can't change your mind after suicide. You also would leave everyone who loves you devastated, don't do that to them.

Life it all about change and it will change, things will get better. In the mean time find someone to talk to, a friend, parent, teacher or anyone that cares for you.

Please take care of yourself. God bless.

Answer 2

Well you don't really have the right to kill yourself I think. I think this is something for people who are medically at death's door, not as a cure to your emotional woes.

Think about it, what if death doesn't fix the problem, we don't know what's beyond, there's no way to tell. People seem to think of it as a release, but what if it's not? Then you're stuck again.

Suicide is also very selfish, it will only make others feel terribly, and then they'll have to try to grasp why you did it, and that's not fair to put people through that.

So here's what you do, get out the phonebook, find either a helpline or a therapist. Then talk it out. Bottling stuff up is what leads to these troubles, so you need to talk about it and work through it so you can be happier, we all deserve that in life.

Also eat healthy and exercise. Junk food only creates a poor base for a healthy person. Eat more whole grains, more fruits and veggies, drink plenty of water. Also exercise for at least 1/2 hour per day, it's proven to be as effective as antidepressants. Your body wasn't made to be lazy, so don't make it.

Also there's a thing called seasonal affective disorder. It affects people who live farther north and south of the equator. It comes from having shorter days through part of the year(winter in North America). So if you live in the northern part of North America, the northern USA or Canada, you may be depressed because of not getting enough sun. If you think this is the case, get outside as much as possible when it's sunny and you will feel better. A link is below.

So again, it's time to start putting your life back together, take the steps, be a better you. Suicide is not the answer! It will not cure your depression, only living and growing can do that.

Best of luck on your journey.

Answer 3

I don't know. I unsuccessfully attempted when I was much younger and I am so glad I didn't do it. It seems impossible that everything or anything can get better and things can get bearable, but my life now bears no relation to do what it did then. Please don't do it. Talk to someone about your problems and try to take some positive steps towards changing your life. If you are still living with your parents, realize that you won't be there forever and you will be able to chose who you include in your life before you know it. Good luck. Concentrate on what makes you happy. Think of all the things you haven't seen. Don't give up.

Answer 4

What are you down about? Is it anything you can change? Have you tried talking about your problems with a friend or family member? They would give you lots of comfort and support.

Life does suck sometimes, and you can feel hopeless! I've been there, but it does get better especially if you've had enough and decide your going to do something to change the situation so it makes you happy. I don't know your situation or problems, so I can't be specific, but killing yourself won't solve your problems! What about the problems and heartache you would cause your family if you did that.

Just try to find the good in the situation and go from there.

Answer 5

Stop whatever you are doing now. Get out of the house and go do something fun to do! Pray to Jesus to help you not feel so depressed. He is the author and finisher of not just our faith, but our very existence as well!
Stop living for yourself and start living your life in the service of Jesus Christ and others! Go find some organization like the Salvation Army or some shelter that feeds the homeless, or the YMCA or YWCA and get on their 'active' list!
Pray often, and some more for divine intervention in your life, and guidance from on High!
Surround yourself with friends, but not the friends of Job in the Bible, but good, honest, fun loving, and hopefully Christian friends who love you, and will help cheer you up!
If you have no such friends or family to pray with you and to encourage you to GO on with your life, in the service of God, then seek out a Christian pastor of some neighbor church(Full Gospel Church that is to say) and go see Him for counseling and advice!
Remember, you are a child of God, no less then the stars of Heaven, you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, undoubted God's plan for the Universe is unfolding, as it should.' Okay, Okay, so I borrowed this line from somewhere else. I thought it would apply here well . ..

Answer 6

cut the crap dude. life is to enjoy not to end. besides commiting suicide is not gonna do anything good for anybody it will always cause trouble and emotional unstability ti you and ur family.
well there are many times when u feel depressed or lonely and even wanna kill urself which is of no use. just try to divert ur mind from it. think of some good thoughts from ur life and happy and jolly moments. the comic moments or if u dont have so than think of good and funny moments from certain films u watched.
go out get drunk, party and from next day start ur life again

Answer 7

Look, if you actually wanted to end your life so much, you'd have done it already. Trust me, I've been there.

You make it seem like you're one of those homeless people who have nothing to eat and sleep on the streets with one blanket on the cold snow. Your life isn't as bad as you make it seem. It might be bad, but not as bad as some people, like those in Africa. Are they complaining? Stop trying to get away from problems, they're not going to fix themselves.

Why don't you work on making your life better? Easier said than done, but it's better than sitting there thinking "it's hopeless", because you know what? It's not.

Keep smiling. Say "my life sucks" and laugh at it. We only live once, why kill yourself? Just to get away from all of this? Why? Don't you want to be emotionally strong? And think about the people that love you. How ignorant is it to kill yourself without thinking about everyone else? And if you're thinking "well, nobody loves me" that's wrong. At least one person in this whole world loves you.

After leaving this all behind, you're going to look back and be like "I'm glad I didn't kill myself". But if you continue like this or kill yourself, you don't know what you're missing.

Good luck.

P.S. This advice better help you, because it took me forever to type.

Edit: also, don't listen to the people that say "you'll go to hell", because you won't, imaginary places like that don't exist. Just don't kill yourself, ok?

Also, if you ever want to talk about anything, e-mail me as many times as you want. I will help you.

Answer 8

DEPRESSION IS A SET OF EMOTIONS. THESE EMOTIONS ARE CAUSED BY CHEMICAL IMBALANCES IN YOUR BODY. IT IS NOT THAT YOU NECESSARILY HAVE A HORRIBLE LIFE BUT THE WAY YOU ARE PERCEIVING LIFE DEPRESSES YOU. THESE CHEMICAL IMBALANCES CAN BE CONTROLLED WITH MEDICINE, WHICH I TOOK ONCE BEFORE. THEY HELPED ME AND HELPED ME CHANGED MY OUTLOOK ON DAILY LIFE. THINK ABOUT HOW MUCH WORSE OFF YOU COULD BE. MANY PEOPLE HAVE NO ACCESS TO A COMPUTER LIKE YOU DO, NO FOOD TO EAT, HAVE A TERMINAL ILLNESS, ARE BEING HELD CAPTIVE AND UNMERCILESSLY TORTURED, THERE ARE SO MANY WORSE SITUATIONS YOU COULD BE IN!!!! DO YOU REALLY WANT TO KILL YOURSELF BECAUSE CHEMICAL IMBALANCES IN YOUR BODY ARE CAUSING YOU TO THINK THIS WAY. NO MATTER WHAT YOU MAY THINK, YOU ARE A VALUABLE PERSON AND YOU ARE NEEDED ON THIS EARTH!!!! IF YOU LEAVE THEN WHO KNOWS HOW HAPPY YOU COULD HAVE BEEN OR WHAT KIND OF DIFFERENCE YOU COULD HAVE MADE IN THIS WORLD. NOTHING IS WORTH KILLING YOURSELF OVER. SENDING YOU MY LOVE FROM A STRANGER. I CARE. DON'T DO IT!!!

Answer 9

First off, feel free to send me an e-mail if you'd like to talk this over.

Second, everyone has something to live for. No matter your story, there's no reason to kill yourself. Try to determine what's making you so unhappy, and then try to fix it.

If nothing else, talking about the problem(s) will make you feel better.

Answer 10

If you kill yourself than that is the end. In death you will either go to hell (dendending on what you believe) or just rot in the ground. Life is painful and hard and depending on who you are, never happy, but to end it all could end up being worse than life. Life is short so why end it sooner than need be. What ever is wrong with your life figure it out and fix it. Only you can do that, but ending your life....that is not a good choice.