Are things always going to be like this?

Question

Me and my ex were together for four months. We were each others first loves. He went on vacation for two weeks and when he came back he told me half of him still loves me but half just wanted to be friends. So I said fine, I just want him to be happy, so we broke up. Even though he said we would be friends he no longer talks or looks at me. It's been two months since we broke up now. We have mutual friends and a class together. It's hard because I will be standing right next to him and it's like I don't exsist. I'm not going to ditch our friends, and neither is he. I use to try and talk to him, not about anything big, just nice small talk, but he seemed annoyed that I was doing so. I use to wave, say hello, but nothing. Now I've just started ignoring him back, he obviously wants nothing to do with me but are things always going to be like this?

Answer 1

Hi

I know from experience that no break up is easy but when one of the parties of the break up starts acting like a jerk so may it be . He is acting really immature about things but if I were you I would ignore him as well .

Find you a new circle of friends and make yourself available I am sure there is some guy who would love to get to know you . Then your ex will see you have moved on and then that is when he will want to be bothered again . Trust me this happened to me a new guy will take your mind off of him .

Good Luck
C

Answer 2

So maybe he doesn't know how to be friends with you anymore, just because you were close for so long. Maybe he wants to see about the proverbial "fish in the sea." Either way, you can't make him talk to you. Go on about your own business, someday he will get over it.

Answer 3

Yes. He never really wanted to be friends, he just wanted an excuse to dump you. Maybe he met someone else while he was away. Whatever the reason, he's not worth it. Find someone who deserves you.

Answer 4

Yes, I'm afraid things are over, with this guy. Time to move on!