i am not talkin about Love with family n freinds.But LOve What Everybody wants in life but is so hard to find.Is it Possible?
2007-03-16 08:23:39 · 14 answers · asked by *^^* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, it is possible. Romantic love can have so many forms and derives from so many sources it is amazing we don't fall in love with multiples partners more often.
After all humans are not naturally monogamous, we choose to be because at some point in mankind evolution having a single mate proved more efficient to build a successful, stable and happy life.
Let's put things this way, one woman can love several men throughout her life, does this make her love for them any less serious than the love of a woman who would only have a single partner? No, and nobody would imply such a thing right?
Well it's the same thing when you meet two of these 'ideal' men at the same time in your life, both have what it takes to make your heart beat and so you fall in love with both and feel torn/guilty of course.
Now one also needs to admit that although this is possible and real it isn't acceptable, not because morally it's looked down on - this is the least of your problems I think - but mainly because you will be hurting both men you love and hurting yourself in the process.
Stepping back from the situation for a while - even sometimes just a few days by yourself - and trying to let the situation cool off a little may clear things up I think. Sometimes your heart will also then give you the answer you're looking for... perhaps one of the two will be missed more... or else maybe you'll find none was M. Right after all.
Just my two cents :) I wish you all the best...
2007-03-16 09:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. I would suggest allowing yourself to act on the love for both people at the same time. But once you truly love someone, the love never goes away. It just becomes a matter of having more or less in common with other people. Some people love eachother, but really couldn't stand to be married to eachother, and some people love eachother and can make it last for life. While being a married person, I so believe that I have that love for 3 guys. Of course, I only act on that love with my husband, and for my own safety have no communication with the other 2 guys any more.
2007-03-16 08:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is. I was deeply in love a couple of years back with a real wet blanket of a man. I wanted nothing more than to make him happy but it didn't happen. Now I'm with the most wonderful man I've ever met. He's the man I love and as far as I'm concerned, his feelings and needs come first. No other man counts at all, other than in the normal way as friends. It's not possible to put two different men's (or women's) needs first and foremost - one would ultimately have to give way to the other. So I would say you can only really love one man or woman.
2007-03-16 08:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it extremely is a tough element to wrap your head round because our American way of life doesn't condone numerous relationships. yet in case you seem at historic past and different cultures or perhaps branches of the Mormon church, then certain, it really is accessible for someone to love many individuals in a romantic style. in simple terms as father and mom love all their little ones, they love one and all in yet in a distinct way even if the affection all of them a similar. I definitely have had to administration my spouse having emotions for yet another woman. We explored a plural courting for more advantageous or less a week and that i got here across i could not manage it for a number of causes. Married people do not end having crushes and infatuations because they are married. the placement accessible right here's that this guy's spouse is regularly occurring with of no longer something about the affair and he did make a promise to his spouse. you should seem into countless the web pages that manage affairs, pretty the psychological adjustments that ensue in the mind even as everybody is in deep infatuation to really understand why people succumb to affairs and experience that they could't stay with out their fans.
2016-11-26 00:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to be in love with two men. That has happened to me, but sooner or later one stays with you and the other leaves. That is infatuation.
I would avoid carrying on sexual relations with two men. That is very unhygenic, and unfair to both of these men.
If you truely love these men, you will think of them first, and put their best interests at heart. Then the real one for you will emerge.
2007-03-16 08:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by poweranni 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it is, however, it would make life a little complicated. In a perfect world these two people are good friends and would be willing to share you.
2007-03-16 08:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually . it's impossible . if someone is in love with two persons and he was put in a situation that he has to choose one of them , what would he do ?
2007-03-16 09:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, if you like two guys and cant figure out a way to decide, then you dont like either of them. i mean if you cant pick one over the other then neither of them are right
2007-03-16 08:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by uhhhh... dRiX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible! u have to choose though who u love more! cuz u dont want to be a cheater!
2007-03-17 04:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by anna needs help!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so. being in love is to strong to be shared between people
2007-03-16 08:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by prettylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋