2007-03-16 08:02:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
if you are worried about how bad it is going to hurt, then you are not ready to have sex.
2007-03-16 08:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by me. 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all...ask youself are you really ready?
Second..is this the guy the one you really want to do it with?
Right OK that's your mental health taken care of..
Next...
Relax and possibly use lube...adds a bit of slipperability for both of you so its not so much work if things start to get a bit rough...
Most times it only hurts if you are not relaxed and when you're not relaxed, you lose your natural wetness and moistness, which aids you during sex..
Good luck...
2007-03-16 15:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The pain really depends on how tense you are. If you're absolutely comfortable your muscles are more relaxed and the experience will be more pleasurable.
2007-03-16 15:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For some it is very painful. I remember crying when I first had sex because it hurt. You should wait and not have sex until marriage.
2007-03-16 23:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by Stumped 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finger yourself or have him do it... or use a smaller dildo, it would get u used to how it feels and how ur muscles work down there. And before u have sex, LOTS of foreplay
2007-03-16 15:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Carolyn B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relax, lube, and make it quick (well, at least make the first part quick).
2007-03-16 15:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by girlvette2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Become a Nun..........never have sex and you won't ever have to experience the pain!
2007-03-16 15:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
don't know cos i'm a guy sorry :)
2007-03-16 15:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋