After every argument my bf wants to have sex. Do men feel that sex solves everything? I don't. We still are upset with each other and all he has on his mind is sex. Sex is usually the furthest thing from my mind.
2007-03-16 07:57:41 · 23 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I REALLY DON'T HAVE THE ANSWER BUT I THINK IT BECAUSE SOME GUYS DON'T LIKE TO SAY THAT THEY WERE WONG SO THEY USE SEX TO APOLOGIZE....OR THE ARGUMENT LEFT HIM FEELING INSECURE AND HE WANTS TO MAKE SURE THAT YOU STILL LOVE HIM
2007-03-16 08:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stand up and tell your boyfriend no!! Don't lay down with a man like that. He's no good. I think you need to get yourself a new boyfriend that has a sense of mind. If sex is usually the furthest thing from your mind, why do you do what you do? If you want to find a good man let him look for you. Build your self-esteem up and realize your a woman not a girl.
2007-03-16 19:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by Theresa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple Answer: Men love sex.
Real Answer: Men can keep all of their feelings in separate compartments. While you are arguing, anger is kept separately from, for lack of better word; horniness. So while he is yelling at you, a separate part of him wants to have sex with you.
Women's emotions interfere with one another. If she is upset, then sex is definitely not on her mind. Sadness, confusion and stress also affect her sex life.
Arguing is a plus for both sides, though. The adrenaline from the argument leads to great sex!
2007-03-16 15:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
agression and extra energy. Or he just can't verbally say "I'm sorry." Either way make up sex is great when you really care about someone. So many feelings can be expressed without saying a thing. Enery will not be put into fighting but put into loving and making each other feel good.
But Some men may do it because they want to make sure u stay with them and vice versa for some women.
2007-03-16 15:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by Shanysky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fighting is passionate and so is sex; he is ready to go when you're passionate, even if it involves feelings of anger! He also wants to release the tension!
But I understand how you feel. Sex is the furthest from your mind and he should understand that you need some time to cool off and get yourself together before going at it. Otherwise, you're going to do it when you're feeling resentful and you're just going to end up fighting about that too. Let him know you're more turned on by making up than fighting!
2007-03-16 15:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is something that you probably agree on.
No matter what just happened sex feels great. Some of the best sex my wife and I have is after we had a nasty fight. Why? Not sure. She thinks it's rage finding another way out.
Whatever. We both feel better afterwards. Don't you?
2007-03-16 15:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by Disco Stu 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he feels he has won the argument if he can get you to have sex with him. So, yeah, he's using sex against you, to show strength over you. Bad relationship - get out.
2007-03-16 15:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by Eddie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
after an argument, more blood is circulating and that means he will stay hard for longer time . Make up sex rocks!
2007-03-16 15:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's "better" because you guys are riled up and emotional anyway. There're extra endorphins pumping through the blood and enhances the typical sensations.
2007-03-16 15:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by M R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know. but for my man he equates sex with love. he thinks when i dont "want him" i no longer care for him. this isnt true and it took something really horrible to make us both see the truth and open the doors of communication. maybe your man just wants to get over it and get on with life.
2007-03-16 15:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by maylene1852 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋