My boyfriend and i have been together for 3yrs and we have a beautiful baby gurl together. and well i cheated on him and ended up pregnant i wanna tell him he is getting all excited and stuff and i feel so bad leading him on he is a great daddy to my daughter and i love him very much i don't want him to stop loving me and my kids what should i do please help me!
2007-03-16 07:56:36 · 23 answers · asked by Mommie of 3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You guys act like it was my choice to cheat I'm 18 he iz 23 we've been together since i was 15 yrs old!!! he cheated 1st all i did was hurt him like he hurt me
2007-03-16 08:10:02 · update #1
You people still don't get it i love this man wit all my heart he is my heart he is my e.v.e.r.y.t.h.i.n.g! He did wat most boys wouldn't do stop selling drugs got a real job and helped his teenage gurlfriend wit his baby!!!!
2007-03-16 08:21:10 · update #2
I never did lie about anything i never told him i was having HIS baby anyway all i did was tell him i was pregnant thats it he took his money and did wat he wanted to do wit i have never asked him or anyting!!!!! I'm just to scared of losing him.
2007-03-16 08:28:48 · update #3
You have to tell him be honest casuse wat you do in the dark will always show up in the light!!!! don't stress out. if he loved you like he says he does then he wouldn't cared about who the dad is!!!!! He would be there for you and your kids!!!!!
2007-03-16 09:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Mrs.Brown♥ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, be what you women always claim to be, you know, strong, dignified, honest, decent. Ah, most of those dont apply to you but you still need to be honest and admit to him that the child isnt his.
He will find out one of these days. Plus doesnt he deserve better then this? Dont say what you or the child need or deserve. Hey, you made choices, now deal with them.
You are typical, you will scream how you love him, while going down on someone else. You love him, for what he does and what he provides. Lady, you love you and only you. Admit it. As far as you want him to do this or that. Too bad. Maybe you should think about things before hand. Maybe you should consider what you give others reasons to think or feel.
2007-03-16 08:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
”You guys act like it was my choice to cheat “
Because it was.
“he cheated 1st all i did was hurt him like he hurt me”
That attitude is childish and immature. It’s also an attempt to shift the blame for YOUR actions.
“i love this man wit all my heart he is my heart he is my e.v.e.r.y.t.h.i.n.g!”
If that were true, then you wouldn’t have cheated.
“all i did was tell him i was pregnant”
That’s merely a lie by omission. You’re being deceitful.
Tell him the truth! Do not make this situation worse by continuing to deceive him. Act like a grown woman, not an immature child, and face the consequences of your actions (whatever they may be).
2007-03-16 08:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by kp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it was your decision to cheat and now you want us to figure out a way for you to get over on him?
If you do love him then be honest with him and tell him what you have done and that the child you are carrying could possibly be someone Else's. If you love him that is.
You should have thought about the risk of losing him before you messed around on him...not love in my eyes...maybe just someone secure for your kids. I feel sorry for your boyfriend.
Be a decent person at least and tell him.
2007-03-16 08:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too little too late, babe.
If you loved him very much you wouldn't go around humping other people.
You deserve whatever happens. Tell him so he can think twice before impregnating a girlfriend again.
He will still be a great Daddy to his daughter. He should get rid of you.
2007-03-16 08:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by Disco Stu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try not being promiscuous in the first place. You're screwed.. but experts say 25% of baby's daddies' out there aren't really the DNA father.. Do what feels right. But do it quickly before he gets all involved in this pregnancy and gets mad and takes you to custody court to get your first child because a promiscuous mother almost always loses in custody court.
2007-03-16 08:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by chellimerrett 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ooops!!! your in deep dirt here! what can you do???? tell him the truth- just imagine if one day your unborn child would need blood or anything else where a dad is the only one that can help and he would find out that he is not the kids dad. I think things would be worst for you and your relationship. So say the truth.
2007-03-16 08:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you are a liar and quite possibly those lies are catching up with you. And yet you ask for help?
The only thing that can "help" you is to tell the truth, and be prepared.
He may forgive you.
Good Luck.
2007-03-16 08:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by Aurora 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with blue_eye... Young women running around having babies with boys (and not the same boys) they are not married to after they have a second child from two different boys and never married to either one they should be fixed.
2007-03-16 08:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by bluemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him the truth unless you plan on living a lie forever.
2007-03-16 07:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by Valentina 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest and tell him, or else one day you'll get into a heated argument and you might say it to hurt his feelings and you don't want that to happen.
2007-03-16 08:17:52 · answer #11 · answered by Jessica S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋