I had my two eggs transfer on March 7.. I am going crazy.. I cry alot... I cannot wait for the two weeks wait!i'll have my blood test on the 20th. I have slight cramping.. no morning sickness, no breast tenderness only my nipples,they slightly hurt ,one more than the other. I'm afraid that I'm not pregnant. Any advices???
2007-03-16 07:51:51 · 17 answers · asked by melody , 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Quit stressing. God will do for you what needs to be done. Have some Faith. Stress will harm your baby, so if you are pregnant then you are not being very nice to the unborn.... breathe. Relax. Be patient. Pray.
2007-03-16 07:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by thezookeeper 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know this is not much help, since it seems that you are indeed having to go through fertility treatments, but I hope it will help you along a little. I think that worrying about whether you are or are not pregnant right now will cause your body to tense and possibly prevent it from happening. Stress causes your body to do really weird things so relax and try to hold on to the last nerve for hope of this baby. Also, your body will listen to your mind and you could start having pregnancy symptoms such as the soreness without actually being pregnant. That is more heartbreaking when you then get a negative, I know it took us a while to get pregnant as well. Good Luck!
2007-03-16 14:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by tryin4freedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for you. I really hope you are pregnant. All you can really do right now is wait. Try to do something to keep yourself occupied this weekend. The 20th will come fast. Not everyone experiences the same symptoms. Maybe you will get a positive result on Tuesday. Maybe you arent far enough along right now to be having symptoms because you only had the transfer on March 7th. Try not to put extra stress on yourself right now. Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-16 15:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by sweettnpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off- there is no good that comes out of worrying. It doesn't make you feel happy, it wears you out and stresses you out. Take a deep breath and stop worrying. What is going to happen will happen. Start thinking more positive about yourself, your life and your future. Everything happens for a reason, and when IT'S supposed to happen, not when you want it to happen. Take time out of the equation and relax. You will become pregnant. You need to believe that you will become pregnant. It might be this time, it might not. But worrying doesn't help and neither does anger or frustration. Be positive, believe that good things will happen to you and enjoy each day that you've given. Being positive is the best way to open yourself up to good things, to relax your body (stress is not a good thing- especially in trying to get pregnant) and be in a happier state.
Good luck.
2007-03-16 16:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by schmidtee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to calm down. Stress can make your eggs not take. Take a breath, relax and think about good things. The 20th is not far away.
Most women don't have any real signs of pregnancy at this point, so don't try looking so hard for them.
Good Luck!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-16 14:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, breathe! If you are pregnant, you don't want the first couple weeks of your baby's forming life to be under pressure and stress, do you?
Secondly... relax. It will all be ok. If you are pregnant, you are obviously excited about it. So I wish you and the father all the best of luck. If you are not pregnant, there are more times to try. It's just two weeks and - trust me - sometimes you don't want to know the answer.
Good luck, keep CALM, and just chill.
2007-03-16 15:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by Lisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down . Stress causes miscariages . There isnt anything u can do to change the outcome of the test ,so sit back ,relax and just wait.
2007-03-16 15:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by y_drysdale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I stress I usually go to the library and get some books, rent movies, or go to the movies, swim, go shopping, things like that. That should help keep your mind a little calm. Goodluck
2007-03-16 15:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do now. It either worked or didnt, but what's done is done. Just relax. If it did work, you dont want to be a stressful "home" for a developing fetus. If it didnt work, you will have to stay strong and go for round 2! :)
2007-03-16 19:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Sheri R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriuosly relax!!! put your feet up and rest and let nature take its course if you are so stressed out your body may reject them. and dont think every prgnant person gets morning sickness, i never have and i have a 4yr old and currently prego with twins......no morning sickness ever!!! and sore breasts? not with the first until milk came in and with these twins not until 3 months everybody is different those are just some "common signs" relax please its not healthy for you to stress!!!
2007-03-16 14:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by plcl32003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋