I did explain that I just wanted to be friends with benefits and he was OK with it..Now he is stalking me!! What do you do!!
2007-03-16 07:51:29 · 36 answers · asked by Jesabel 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I thought it was girls that typically want a relationship. now all the girls want a fling and guys want relatonships? the world no longer makes sense!!!
2007-03-16 07:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by QuestionMark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men and women, in general, have lost the art of "dating." Now everyone has mini marriages and then move on to another mini marriage without actually getting married. I can't tell you how many 1st dates I've been on: dinner and a movie where the guy expected to come home with me AND spend the night in my bed?
I wish I could go out with men who weren't just trying to get laid all the time. Or I wish they'd have sex before they pick me up, and then we could have a regular time together.
I keep it friends until I want to get more serious. If you have sex with a man or woman, the whole relationship "gets" serious. PS>>> ABout stalking: You can notify the police and have a restaining order issued. You can report him to the telephone company (if he calls a lot) and report him for making harrassing calls( they actually have a dept for this kind of thing); or, you could move and change your number. I hope you stay safe!
2007-03-16 07:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me. I showed up one day wearing an engagement ring (a friends fiance broke up with him so I used it) and told him that I met the man of my dreams three days ago. He never talked to me again.
Strangely now I am marrying that friend and he is the guy of my dreams. My avatar is a picture of our baby girl. Sometimes being in a relationship is so much better than having a fling.
2007-03-16 07:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by dumbblond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out of state? Really, though, there are laws against stalking. Or send one of your brothers or guy friends to threaten him, that worked for me once. Wow, you are gonna win *most answers ever* as the guys flock to offer themselves for your flings! Hang on to your hat, girl!
2007-03-16 07:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by JenJen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lead him on, don't give him any sense of hope, or he'll keep thinking there's a chance. Go to the club and seek out guys there if you are looking for a fling.
2007-03-16 07:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by ragingx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its like my addiction to crystal meth, you get some and you want more and more until you die. (actually I dont do crystal M, ignore that) Basically you can ignore him and find yourself a new guy. Sorry I am not in the market I hate the products. Trust me you can do better with some vodka and rum, a bit of hash and buddies.
2007-03-16 07:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
less and less ppl are out screwing around with all different ppl,because of Aids and all the other STDs,all the protection out there isn't 100% fool proof.
About that guy,that's another reason ppl aren't screwing around with whom ever,you dont really know the person that well,and turns out you found yourself a true psycho!!
2007-03-16 07:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by grmat 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
restraining order! Some guys gotta ruin a good thing. Wanna be friends w/benefits??? LOL ;)
2007-03-16 07:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too angry. But how about you stop being a
W H O R E and try a real relationship out. Or do you just suck at monogamy? Get a vibrator it is just out for a little fun too.
I am sure you will get plenty of responses from guys going... ha ha I'll do ya. Have at that nasty D1CK.
2007-03-16 07:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by puggylover 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
At this point in time I prefer friends with benefits.
2007-03-16 07:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋