Why do people hate fat girls? Whats wrong with them?

Question

I was looking at questions earlier about "fat girls". (I hate using that term, but I don't know any other way to put it)

There was someone who was saying fat girls stink. Uh! ANYONE with ANY KIND of body type can smell, hun. Not just bigger girls.

And I really hate how most people think all fat girls want to do is eat. Once again, NOT TRUE. Some might, but for the most part, uh no!

There was someone who said he wouldn't dance with a bigger girl because she might eat him. Since when has canniballs(sp?) and obese girls been the same thing? Seriously, I want to know.

Why people? My Aunt is obese, but heck she smells better than the barbie next door. Why do people create such...stereotypes? Do they really have THAT much time on their hands?

I don't know about yall, but I think that is rather pathetic. I see nothing wrong with bigger girls.

I'm not looking for stupid answers. If you wanna hate cause of what I said, well go take your 2 cents somewhere else. I don't care.

Answer 1

Everybody sweats, but fat people sweat more, and it takes less exertion to make them begin sweating.

The sweat glands in certain places, especially the places that would be naturally covered in hair, excrete fat from surrounding tissues. The fat deposited by the sweat glands on the skin attracts germs which, after feeding, excrete waste. The waste from bacteria are what give people body odor. Fat people have a bigger problem with that than thin people do.

Also, guys who have had sex with fat women can tell you that it feels really WEIRD to "sink" down into those folds of excessive blubber. It's not "sexy," either. It's repulsive. Combine that with the excessive sweat and body smell problem, and it's no wonder guys don't like fat girls.

Also, nature seems to have programmed men to admire women with a specific ratio of waist-to-hip circumference. In scientific studies done on human female attractiveness, a waist to hip measurement ratio of 0.7 is considered optimally beautiful in nearly all human cultures.

Answer 2

I agree with you sweetie, the bigger folks I have known in my life are usually the kinder gentler souls. What I want to know is how come the chubby guys don't catch the flack that the females do? Why do women have to live up to these standards, but men do not? And society wonders why so many women struggle with eating disorders, whether it be anorexia or binge eating!

I don't think all people are as harsh as the ones who made those comments though. It's alot easier to say those things on a site like this because you don't really have to be accountable for it, and for some reason forums such as this one seems to bring the shallow souls out in droves.

With that being said....I couldn't help but giggle a little at the comment Mr. Big made ;-)

Answer 3

I guess the term you should use is "obese." Not everyone "hates" obese woman, but the stereotypes go on because some people perpetuate them, such as they eat too much, etc.
I'll be honest, I don't think a woman who is very obese is attractive in any way. I'm sure you woman out there feel the same about very obese men. Being obese is a physical liability in many ways. Many people don't want to put up with such a liability. Obesity is unhealthy, prone to more accidents, and leads to a much shorter life span. Since most people are not very obese, they tend to "steer" away from those that are because it's too different for their tastes.
Does that mean I like my women skinny? Not even so. I find a very skinny woman looks unhealthy. I'm more into a woman who's slightly plump with nice size hips. I guess you can call this a full figured woman. This to me is attractive. Mmmmm!!

Answer 4

I wrote this comment while sitting in the library a table away from a fat girl. She ate 3 times in the 2 hours Ive been sitting here. She spent 90% of the time talking about how stupid her friends are and how much work she has to do. Meanwhile countless attractive girls have come and gone all around us and have not eaten anything or spent large amounts of time complaining. Most fat girls are self destructing and no guy wants that.

Answer 5

You make fair and valid points - and not being interested in giurls full stop - I can perhaps answer with a degree of neautrality.

People stereotype - it isn't fair or pleasant, but they do nonethless. The problem is that sterotypes tend to have a grain of truth in them - which is why they came into being in the first place.

Although your Aunt may smell like sugar and spice, there are a LOT of overweight people who do NOT spend as much time on personal hygeine - and yup, this DOES seem to be more so than with average / underwight people.

When VERY obese, this become much more noticable still - as it can get to the stage where even iof the person WANTS to be clean, it is physically difficult for them to reach all areas that need a little freshening.

Always eating? Well I agree that again that is a big generalisation - but between you and me, it would kind oif suggest that they are eating a wee bit more than the slim girl next door - either that or she isn't doing much physical activity to keep herself in trim.

For a lot of people it ISN'T the weight that is the issue - weight is often a symptom of other things - low self image, little interest in physical activity, comfort eating to make things worse, clothes that are 3 sizes to small and make people look even bigger don't help either.

There is no hate here - I am way past my ideal weight too and certainly have no right to judge anyone - but equally there ARE reasons why some folks do prefer someone who looks after their body more than someone that doesn't - or "not quite as much".

Mark

Answer 6

Actually im overweight and I probably eat less then most people do. I blew out both my knees and when i stopped being active thats when i put weight on. I still dance but i cant work out or do cardio like i used to. I dont over eat or eat fast food or eat bon bons all day... And i most certainly do not smell at any time.
Plus not everyone hates us... I do ok...
I agree with you that there is a general ignorance regarding weight and think for the most part i am healthy and if someone doesnt like me because of me weight screw you i dont need you.
Thanks for the good question.............

Answer 7

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Answer 8

There is a saying that people hate what they fear. I think because of society's emphasis that being fat is bad and dangerous and because people are ridiculed for being overweight or obese, then a lot of people are afraid that they will become that way too. So if they ostracize heavy people and say they won't do anything they do then they think they won't be heavy.

And I read somewhere that some really big people with folds can get infections under them but they can't see or reach it when they're taking a bath or shower and that is what causes the odor.

Answer 9

I like your question/commentary. Being a "fat girl" all my life (I'm now 39 and stillheavy, but I did lose 100 pounds and am still working on it) I'd like answers,too.
People, especially immature kids, make fun of those who are different for many reasons. They may be insecure and think making fun of others makes people think better of them. They may be trying to be funny. Some people have the misconception that fat people eat all the time and are sloppy and lazy.
These things are not always true. I am an intelligent, professional and successful woman - beautiful according to some, happy with a sexy husband. But small-minded people, and kids, still laugh. Even our male adult room mate has a fat phobia. Go figure.
I'm clean and dress nicely. I am just larger than most. And I've never lacked boyfriends .....so I guess this isn't an answer but a supportive comment on your question. Does anyone have an answer?

Answer 10

I'm a big girl myself.... I hate being fat and I don't eat much but I'm still big. My friends say I'm big boned but all the skinnier girls say I'm fat because I can't stop eating. Boys laugh at me and say I'll crush them with my fat arms if they try to give me hug. The teachers say its because they are jealous, i think there jealous because us bigger girls are the nicest people you could ever meet. One person once said to me that its good to be big because the bigger you are more you care. I don't think anyone is fat, I think the girls that are bigger then others are big because there heart is so big. Never think your fat, your only big because your heart is big!

Answer 11

People create these stereo types about fat chicks b/c it is a very easy thing to do and it takes only seconds to think of a stereotype. Some people are cool with fat chicks, they are like any other group of people, some people hate em some love em