How much does a girl bleed her first time having sexual intercourse?

Question

I was just very curious because me and my boyfriend were thinking about having sex. And I dont want to bleed alot and him think its weird and freak out. I know everyone says it hurts. I just want to know how much a girl can bleed and does it come out immediatetly after having sex? Or does it not and it just happens later. When is the best time to have sex so your parents dont think you have? Because my mother always knows when I have my period and I dont want her to know if me and my boyfriend have had sex. Also I dont want to get pregnant. Do I have to be on birth control or is it okay if we just use a condom?

Answer 1

When I lost my virginity, it was sort of a two-step process. We tried one night, but it hurt too much, so we stopped and decided to wait until I was a bit more relaxed. I bled a tiny bit.

The second time was a few days afterward, and then, because his penis broke through my hymen, I bled, though not much. It IS different for every girl; some bleed a lot, some only a little. Though I didn't bleed that much during, the next day I did. This is normal if it happens to you; it's just because your vagina has been stretched and irritated.

About the pain: It hurt for me quite a bit, but it's different for every girl. It depends, I suppose, on how high your tolerance for pain is and how thick/thin your hymen (it's a membrane) is.

Well...if you're hiding the fact that you're going to have sex from your parents...I'm not quite sure you're ready. At least talk to your mother. But if you don't think your parents will be OK with the fact that you're about to have sex, then go to your local drugstore and buy condoms (latex is most effective, though in rare cases, some women CAN be allergic. It's not that common though.) Unless you're 18 +, I think you need parental consent to be prescribed brith control pill by an OBGYN.

If you absolutely don't want your mother to know (which I'm not really advising, but it's your choice) then maybe lay a towel onto your sheets so the blood won't leak on your sheets. Then just soak the towel after to get the blood out. Or, you could always just do your own laundry. However, I don't advise hiding it from your mother.

Though condom and birth control pill are better, some women choose not to be on the pill and use only a condom, which is quite effective. Just make sure it's put on correctly, there are no tears, that it's not expired, that it's intact, and that there's a little extra room at the tip for the ejaculate.

Hope this helps. Best of luck to you and your boyfriend.

Answer 2

Bleeding During First Intercourse

Answer 3

First Sexual Intercourse

Answer 4

If you are emotionally prepared to have sex, go for it. If you're menstruating, your body has already sent you a clear sign you are physically ready.

Pain varies from person to person, as does bleeding. Some feel pain but don't bleed; others bleed but feel no pain... you get the idea. You can bleed a lot, like a period, or a little, like a few drops. It can be a little painful or excruciating.

The most important thing is to make sure you are physically ready (don't jump right in), comfortable, and relaxed. It will ease any pain. Also a partner who knows what's up and wants to be helpful is good.

As for when/where, do it somewhere where you are comfortable. Don't risk getting caught.

Please always use a condom. You might also want to have your partner actually climax outside of you (i.e. pull out) for double safety.

Good luck!

Answer 5

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Unless she says she's in pain or asks you to stop just ignore it and keep going. The first few times a girl will bleed, and sometimes if she is at the beginning or end of her period there will be some blood as well. There should not be more blood then you would see from a mild nose bleed or a scraped knee, unless the girl is on her period. Also, if you are fingering her you can scrap up her insides with your nails which can cause bleeding and infection so beware of this.

Answer 6

I'm guessing you're way too young to be having sex if you're worried about you're mother finding out and also if she watches you're periods so I'd suggest you wait until you at least reach the age of consent because it's illegal for you and you're boyfriend to have sex until you're both the age of consent and you both would be committing a very serious crime. If you are the age of consent then go for it. Make sure you're boyfriend uses a condom and don't worry about it hurting. It will only hurt the first time. I'm a guy so I don't know what the pain is like but can't imagine it's too survivor a pain. Ask you're boyfriend to take it easy on you. If you don't want you're mother finding out you had sex then go to somebody else's place to do it such as you're boyfriend's or if that's not possible then like what other people suggested you could put a towel over the sheets on the bed and then either throw it away or wash it. Whatever you decide to do make sure you're boyfriend wears a condom. Condoms can be bought in pharmacys and supermarkets. Enjoy you're first time.

Answer 7

It sounds like you are little too young in my opinion, but I will answer your questions best I can.

You will bleed during and after sex somewhat - it really depends on your body, etc.

here are some tips

1 - USE A CONDOM! - The pill is good, but it doesnt do anything for STDs - HIV, herpes, etc.
2 - Take it slow - yes it will hurt - it might be a good idea to purchase some KY Jelly - dont use vaseline as it will destroy the condom.
3 - The amount of blood depends on your body - it should not be that much - especially if you prepare yourself.
4. Talk to your boyfriend. Discuss what you are doing and what could come out of it.

You can contact me if you need to talk about it. I am a counselor.

Answer 8

I would prefer Birth Control and definately a condom. Condoms are good to protect against disease while it does not always have the effect on pregnancy. I would recommend birth control cause it is safer than a condom. Just hope you realize sex is not everything and that you do not rush into it. You may think now he will never leave you but what if he does? That would be one more boy you slept with. Think of it this way, say one boy says he had sex with one person, but how many people did that person he had sex with slept around? Not a good idea to have sex now. Wait.

Sex can delay periods btw

Answer 9

I bled a lot during my first time, but we didn't notice until after when we found the six inch wide circle on his mattress.
I also spotted for 4 days after.

At my first time I was an ADULT. I never had sex as a teen.

The best time? If you have to sneak around, then don't do it because your mom will find out since you say she watches your periods.
If you do do it, use a condom. You'll have to sneak around to get the birth control pills, but be sure to use a condom.

It's good you're responsible as far as protection goes, but I think you should wait until you're older because you would have to sneak around on your mom to do it and she is highly likely to find out. Better to wait than get into trouble, don't you think?

Answer 10

Darling, first of all consider what form of protection you will use. Then make an appointment with your local health department or physician for birth control options and safe sex practices. Then while you're there ask the professionals these questions. The'll be happy to discuss it with you and in most states you do not have to have your mothers permission to seek birth control. It is confidential and you are guaranteed privacy through HIPAA laws.