What do you do if you CANT avoid them?
2007-03-16 07:35:27 · 14 answers · asked by J♥R♥R 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
they cant,be YOU and be proud of who you are and never change for anyone. They can try all they want,but you have your own mind and morals. The meaner they are,the nicer you should be,ppl hate that,lol
2007-03-16 07:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by grmat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah jealous people TRY to drag me down but they are not successful...If I can't avoid them then just get them even more jealous...
2007-03-16 07:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealous people always drag me down. It seems that the more jealous they are, the more malicious they are. I try to be nice, only if I must have contact with them, and never, ever give them any more fuel for the jealousy fire. I try to not be angry at them and instead feel sorry for them so I keep my patience in tact. It's hard.
2007-03-16 07:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by *Larry P. he's for me* 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think jealous people do try to bring you down, but secretly. My best friend and I have always hung out together and we have always just kept secrets with one another. I am a good secret keeper and she isn't. That isn't my point but i know since we are now in high school, she has started to make up fake guys to try to make me jealous, but the thing is I know she is really jealous not me. I think she is a fake, liar, and enemy, but whenever she calls I act normal, but then I think to myself that she is the one that is a loser, not me. If you like the jealous person just hang with them sometimes but don't always be the one to call. Let them try to be your best friend, and don't be mean. Just be yourself and definetly give them compliments, they will understand. And if that doesn't work then tell them upfront," You know I am totally your friend but don't think that I am better than you because everyone has their faults." Sorry it took me so many words. Hope that helps!!
2007-03-16 07:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they drag us down. There's no way to avoid them if you're so wonderful that everyone is jealous at some point. Just grin & bear it.
2007-03-16 07:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by J Doe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do because they don't like you they do everything they can to mess you up. Try to not be around them and don't let them know what you are doing, keep them out of your business .The less they know the better. Watch out sometimes they can even use people they know that talk to you for information. You can never trust jealous people.
2007-03-16 07:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by lovablegal77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a matter of fact, it happened last night at my daughters basketball game. Another mother who is always griping about something, mouthed off something at the end of the game about all the other players in front of everyone!! She has done this many times before. Fact of the matter is...she is just jealous because her daughter is fat and totally sucks at basketball!!! And softball!!!! And volleyball!!!! If I don't ignore her, I usually mouth off something silly just to let her know I think she's stupid. Lol! We are getting ready to start fast-pitch softball and she signed her daughter up. Guess who the coach is???? ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Should be an exciting summer.
2007-03-16 07:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't avoid them, that's really difficult!! But the best thing to do is ignore them and not give them any fuel for their fire. After a while, you just hope they get bored and move on.
2007-03-16 07:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes all the time ! Fight back by your deep faith in GOD that he will help u win and by trying your best in concentrating on what you do.
2007-03-16 07:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by hansombynature 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've always told them straight out"Jealousy will get you nowhere".It really works.
2007-03-16 07:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋