My boyfriend of 8 months has a friend who lives in Texas. She has been posting things on his Myspace account which bother me, and I think that is her goal. I do not say anything to him about it but she always does it. ex: she posted pics of him in a towel on his page and ones of her in his flight suit. She tells him she loves him and how much she missed him. I looked in his Cell and he was asking her for Vag. pics not too long ago. then back in December there was one he sent to her saying that he loved her. He has lots of pics of me inhis phone, but twice as many of her in there. She lives in Texas and we live in AZ. Should i confront him about this? He lied to my face about asking for pics like that when I asked his opinion about it, disguised as another friends problem and he even told me I could look at his phone. He lied to my face right after I had just found the texts and pics. what should I do? bring it up to him? let him know I violated his privacy?
2007-03-16 07:33:41 · 20 answers · asked by misfit1985 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think for your mental sanity that you and your boyfriend ought to talk seriously, if you detect on him that he is lying send him away and start a new life, because he ain't the only guy on earth available and someone who values you is waiting for your call.
2007-03-16 07:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ya no estoy en Y!R por Facebook! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally there is something called "emotional cheating." This is when a current boyfriend/girlfriend keeps ties with an ex, when they have a current girlfriend/boyfriend. Obviously your boyfriend did nothing to discourage Ms. Texas from posting sexually suggestive photo's on his MySpace. Clearly he is loving the attention and he is keeping her in his life by not discouraging her. Mostly he is disrespecting you. Since you are his girlfriend now he should be sharing himself with you only. Yes, there is definitely a problem and I think it is time for you to force him to make a decision between you and happy britches in Texas. He is violating your relationship. You did nothing wrong in terms of validating your suspicions..he is violating your commitment. Ask him point blank how long you are supposed to put up with this behavior?
2007-03-16 07:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel! That those pictures on the blog bother you, without saying it's a friend's story! And about him lying, well ask him one last time if he has nothing to tell you about her, and if he lies again, then tell him the truth! Yeah maybe you "violated his privacy" but look what you found!! If you can't trust him, there's no point of staying with him...
2007-03-16 07:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by Emilie E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be so friggin' outraged if this happen to me. Yes I would of confronted him as soon as I found the Pict's. The first 2 rules in a relationship is TRUST & LOYALITY If you don't have that you have nothing I hate to say. I would confront him on it. Don't holler and scream at him.just talk to him in a normal voice you will get through to him alot better. Guys seem to block out the screaming thing. Good luck sweetie.
2007-03-16 07:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by kutebunns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say that counts as cheating...i mean, he's basically having a long distance relationship with her and another relationship with you...i'd say kick him to the curb, or make him choose between you two. tell him what you know about the whole thing, and if he freaks about you violating his privacy, DON'T LET HIM TURN IT AGAINST YOU. that's what we generally do, is get the finger pointing the other way and make you feel bad for doing it. don't let it happen. remember that, while you did go into his phone, he's the one that's cheating, not you. and, unlike courts, you don't need a warrant to go snooping around his stuff.
2007-03-16 07:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confront him if he doesn't like you why do you even want a person around you like that. He is all over her can't you tell by the text messages and stuff. Tell him that you violated his privacy to and explain to him how you felt and why you did that.
2007-03-16 07:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he must b liking it cause she is still doing it and if he cared about you in anyway he would tell the bi tch to stop sending photos and talking about love because it is disrespectful to his chic which is you! but we don't live in a perfect world do we so my question to you is he worth all this heart ache and wrinkles um NO! so tell him he can have her instead of you cause there are plenty of other hot fine a ss men out there and they are waiting for you to b single!!
2007-03-16 07:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds to me like hes cheating.
and a lepard never changes its spots.
get rid as it will only caurse u more heart ache in the long run. theres plenty more fish in the sea,
the best of luck
2007-03-16 07:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by *mommy to 3 boys* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definately question him.....there is too many question marks coming up with this girl...i mean the pics...the comments and what he tells her i would do it as soon as possible
2007-03-16 07:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by danijsj32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like cheating on you. I would confront him. He shouldn't being doing that. You caught him. Let him feel the humiliation.
2007-03-19 12:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋