2007-03-16 07:10:56 · 29 answers · asked by jon c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i sure hope not. im gonna keep on having sex with my wife after we have kids. sheesh. or are you talking about swinging? that might be a bit problematic.
2007-03-16 07:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u love ur partner u would not want 2 have sex with others and yes it can ruin a marriage i can't se how it can help a marriage 1 bit and if the worst does happen the poor kids are the ones hurt most when mommy n daddy split if ur marriuage is stale seek advice from relate or some kind of councilling after all u loved each other once got wed and had kids it can get back to that stage with a little help and discussion good luck x
2007-03-16 14:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking about couples swap or swinging, than the answer is YES. Nomatter what it is yes because you have children. Sure the two/ four adults can have meaningless sex, BUT you guys have kids too. Now this open sex lifestyle is hurting many people's relationships, but it will distroy the way your kids look up to you
2007-03-20 08:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by Winchester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking about swinging then yes. It will hurt your marriage. It is a sin and to top it off... GROSS
that is not what marriage is about and if you could disrescept your wife by doing this then that is just aweful. How would you feel if people found out? Do you understand the affect it would have on your kids? What if you wife then slept with the same man but behide your back?
2007-03-16 14:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by The Voice Of Reason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that you are talking about two or more couples having sex at the same time and interchanging or exchanging partners. Though this sounds really hot, it could really lead to trouble. The hard thing is to really know what type and extent of damage that you may do to your marriage. I don't think the payoff is worth the risk. You could lose everything - destroy your little family.
2007-03-16 14:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by Dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your spouse are consenting and decide to introduce outside parties to spice up your love life it is still a mistake,imo.
You both might be up (no pun intended) for it at the time, but later one of you , more likely the wife, will regret it.
Introducing third parties to liven up your love life is a mistake, try looking for different ways with each other that will bring back that spark. Because a third and fourth party wont.
2007-03-16 14:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by titus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise not bringing additional people into your relationship. There are so many problems that can occur, it's just not worth risking your marriage for the brief fun and excitement of sex. Try looking for other ways to spice up your sex life. Introduce toys, roll playing, costumes, new places.
2007-03-16 14:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by Counselor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really a religion based question. You can have sex with other couples after and before you have children. The question is does this violate any religious believes you may have? If not proceed, I guess.
2007-03-16 14:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couple sex? Sex between a married couple?
I have to have sex with SOMEONE. If it can't be my own wife, who can it be??
2007-03-16 14:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by Disco Stu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not if the couple doing it is the married couple in question.
2007-03-16 14:13:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋