She hates me but stays sweet In front of me but ruins my life at my back...
2007-03-16 06:37:17 · 31 answers · asked by friend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
By what you have stated it sounds like she is not your friend.
For you to know things she has done behind your back tells me that others have told you things she has done. BE CAREFUL because I have found over the years that people who will tell you what she said and did will also tell your friend what you say and do.
Be kind but distance your self from this girl.
2007-03-16 06:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by ~Raspberry Tea~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me me but you are crazy to call her your friend let alone your best friend she is More like an associate get it right you see friends treat each other the same all the time. I could understand if it was a few times around a guy but all the time that is just unacceptable confront her and if she still doesn't change kick her to the curb
2007-03-16 06:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by Sha2293 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new friend... you will have many in your life.. Some you keep for longer than others... Let it go... and no one can ruin your life except YOU! Take some responsibility and don't put your happiness in the hands of others.
2007-03-16 06:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by Che K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you did but if you feel like you been the best friend you could be and she still feel that way, then left her go. She'll soon realize what a good friend you are but by then it will be too late and i will hope you will move on.
2007-03-16 08:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by helpful friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then she's really not your friend. Get rid of her before she ruins your life even more. Life is too short.
2007-03-16 06:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by Dyme Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her. You deserve better.
It is better to have a straight forward enemy than a poison hearted friend, no matter how much you hate conflict.
2007-03-16 06:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by shrek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With best friends like that, who needs enemies. Get a new friend.
2007-03-16 06:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Spud55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She ain't your friend. She's a hypocrite. But first ask yourself if you did anything that offended her. If no then confront her and sort things out. If you ain't daring enough find a mediator.
2007-03-16 06:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by Booyah! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do for that is ask god to revile the things she is doing behind your back. and also keep a positive mind always even when anyone is doing something to you. pray and you will see what god will do.
2007-03-16 06:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by shereda b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your best friend, its tough, but you've got to let go of her. Forget her if she does that she isn't really your best friend. I was in a situation similar to yours. Once I let her go I found myself happier.
2007-03-16 06:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋