I am married, but am having an emotional affair with a man. The affair had been physical, but over the past few months, it's been of a more emotional nature. We are still very good friends. This guy however still wants me to come and see him just to hang out and cuddle, talk, etc. What do I make of this? Is he still wanting the physical aspect? (he claims he doesn't want it, but I think otherwise).
2007-03-16 06:31:55 · 15 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just do him, its what you want isn't it
2007-03-16 06:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a man, of course, he wants it to be physical. You're married, why are you having any kind of affair with another man? Is he married too? Have you given any thought whatsoever to how your husband will feel WHEN he finds out? Have you given any thought to how YOU are going to feel WHEN your husband finds out and leaves your lying, cheating behind? Obviously not or you wouldn't be doing this! As far as I'm concerned, you're nothing but a cheap wh0re who deserves all the misery you get in this world!
2007-03-16 06:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by saylavie2u2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, grow up. Of course he still wants it. As long as you are willing to give it, he'll take it.
If your marriage is so bad you need to have an affair, maybe you need to find a little integrity and end the marriage before you carry on with other men.
If your marriage is not that bad, then maybe you need to try to make it better before your husband clues up and you lose everything in a divorce.
2007-03-16 06:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sally G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does want the physical affair. I hope you are okay - when my wife had an affair on me many years ago, she carried a weight of guilt that seemed to have weighed a ton, and the strange part is that it was harder on her than it was on me in many ways. I wanted revenge so bad, but seeing how it affected her made me change my mind. Take care and good luck.
2007-03-17 17:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would say he is still wanting the physical aspects of your relationship. if this is something you are not interested in then you need to set up some boundaries. best of luck
2007-03-16 06:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its turning physical. I would get out before the husband finds out, though he deserves to know what has happened.
2007-03-16 06:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what he wants! If you put half the effort into your marriage that you are putting into this man, you would have an awesome relationship with your husband. You are such a whor_!
2007-03-16 06:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men always want the physical aspect, so I would say that he is lying.
2007-03-16 06:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you care about what he wants? You have cheated on your husband and you go on talking about your feelings and this guys feeling. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. I hope you have no kids who will feel the pain from all of this. Please tell your husband and ask his forgiveness or end your marriage right now. Don't play people.
2007-03-16 06:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by VW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a ....... if had such affair , and u'l continue to be so if u meet him again. The only thing he wants is wht u r predicting
2007-03-16 06:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by priya k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you, why are you so concerned about what this guy wants when you have a husband? What about his needs.
2007-03-16 06:43:48 · answer #11 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋