My now ex, left me to be with someone else. He told me we were "not right for each other at this moment"!!?? When I found out why, he was seeing another girl. Not only that, but he told this girl that he never really loved me and was never attracted to me. Now, I dont have a problem in the looks dept. lets say I dont have a problem getting a date. I'm not vain, however, why did he have to devalue me?? If this girl asked about me, why couldnt he give her a simple answer and move on with her. Well, it got back to me and I lost it on him, I yelled and called him names...out of anger...I never did before, I never even swore at him before ever. Well, now he his no longer with this girl, and we dont speak anymore. We were together for 2yrs. They were together for maybe3-4 months. Do you think he regrets what he did and do you think he his ashamed? Also, coming from a guy's point of view, do you think he meant those things he said about me? Or was his intention of me not finding out and if
2007-03-16 06:29:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
things didn't work out, he would of come back to me. Like when he said we are not right for each other at this moment?
2007-03-16 06:30:18 · update #1
he didnt mean what he said about you he was just horny for her and wanted to f*ck her...
some men suck big time
what an asshole
i hope he regrets his *** off
2007-03-16 06:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by Martin M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a woman scourned. Are you more hurt by what he said or the actuall affair? I see both here. Lower ones standards and anyone can get a date so that doesnt really mean much of anything nowadays. I get the idea here that as long as he didnt defame your character, that the affair was okay. Like you have some kind of image to uphold and the man of your dreams tarnished it. Men are shameless sometimes and will say just about anything to a woman at any time without realizing what they are saying to get whatever it is they want at the time. He will eventually come to regret this but it wont have the same affect on him as you though. Men dont expect to get caught and when they do they cant seem to understand why their spouses get so irate and really do expect their relationship to return to normal. Good luck
2007-03-16 13:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He devalued you to make himself feel good about cheating.
I am sure he has some regrets but the truth is he didn't want to be with you so you have to move on. You have given a lot of thought to this so this also tells me that you are hoping
that he comes back.
You say that you don't have any problems attracting men so don't take him back but do take your time to attract the right man who will treat you the way that you deserved to be treated.
2007-03-16 13:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to convince yourself that everything is ok and that he did'nt mean what he said.He probably does'nt remember what he said a few minutes ago,much less in the past.What he did is wrong and don't try to persuade your mind.Who cares if he meant it or not.Go out and get yourself some!!!! HAVE FUN
2007-03-16 13:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by charles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume your still very young. why do you care what he said to the other girl. no one can devalue you but you. let it go. there's a boy on every coroner looking for a pretty girl.
2007-03-16 13:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only said those things because he wanted to get in her pants.
From the sound if him it doesn't seem like he values anyone, including himself.
2007-03-16 14:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't get back with him
2007-03-16 13:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋