Was / is it because you didn't / don't love your wife/husband or it was / is just for fun?
2007-03-16 06:26:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
that's a hard question, but you know what, sometimes people cheat not because it 's a curiosity but because your partner does not give you anymore attention. Trust me, when u lack love in your relationship it feels real nice when u meet someone and they want you. It feels nice to be wanted and desired because that is what first of all makes u fall in love with a person, but after that's missing, someone comes along and makes you feel like u felt before, it feels nice and so u give yourself to them with no remorse. You continue loving your partner but u feel something is missing. It's easy to cheat when your partner is not giving that love 2 u.
2007-03-23 17:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by grissy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I had an affair because I was bored with my sex life. I ended up leaving my husband for this man, got married 2 years later to him, and left him after 1 1/2 yrs of marriage because of his temper (didn't see it at all while dating). My first husband has forgiven me and we are great friends. He would like us to be back but I can't take the chance of hurting him again - so we remain friends. And, yes, of course, I regret the affair and it wasn't worth it. I have been single for 7 yrs now - guess I am punishing myself.
2007-03-16 06:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Kitt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for almost 4 years and I have never had an affair. My partner cheated on me when we were still dating and she said that she did it because she HAD to see what it was like with this other person or she would regret it for the rest of her life. I don't know. I don't think I would have made the same choice.
As you can see I got over it and she has been monogamous ever since.
2007-03-24 06:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by Samarama 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it the marriage didn't work out it call separated and you can have another affair like wife or husband can choose their decision don't want to be together anymore. it is not fun and very painful .. life goes on
2007-03-24 05:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by king2king2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i haven't but if it came down to that i will tell him before i do anything i will tell him just because i love him to much to hurt him and i hope he would do the same i mean there love in between us and as we live our lifes together we will have testes in life but i think its the love that holds people together and if someone does have a affair its because the attention is not there or the love is gone
2007-03-23 16:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by aracelis301 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have thought about it, but couldn't go through with it. I love my husband, but like every marriage, there are rough times. Every women feels like she is missing something emotional at one point or another in her mariage. Some cheat, others work on their marriage. I chose to work it out - I have 19 years and four children with him. Way too much to give up for some sexual fling!!!
2007-03-16 06:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.....I did have an affair. And I did it only for fun though it didn't turn out to be funny at the end!!!
2007-03-24 05:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 39 and have been married for 5 years. Ones enough, why the HECK would I want another? If I get rid of this one there WONT be anymore!
2007-03-22 07:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by Newtron 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was unfaithful to my hubby once not because I didn't love him but because he treated me bad.I know there is no excuse for what I did but at the moment that's how I felt. I guess I went looking for someone to make me feel better.But I do regret it and I have change I haven't been unfaithful to my hubby ever since and we been happily marry for 9yrs now.
2007-03-16 06:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by Daisy* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!, I NEVER HAVE AND NEVER WILL!!!
IF YOU OR ANYONE ELSE OUT THERE IN THE WORLD CHEATS OR (HAD OR IS HAVING AN AFFAIR ) THEN IN MY BOOK ,IT SAYS ,YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT LOVE IS ! ,AND THAT YOU DO NOT LOVE YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE ,AND HAVE LOVE AND SEXUAL LUST CONFUSED. THINKING THAT SEX IS LOVE . SEX IS NOT LOVE ,LOVE IS IN THE HEART ,MIND , AND SOUL. YOU NEED TO HAVE SELF CONTROL AND NOT ACT ON THOUGHTS AND TEMPTATIONS .IF YOU REALLY LOVE SOMEONE THAN YOU WILL BE TRUE TO THAT PERSON ,LIKE GOD INTENDED.
IF THERE IS A PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE ,FIRST TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE .THEN TRY TO WORK IT OUT .IF THAT IS NOT POSSIBLE THAN END IT ,BUT I DO NOT BELIEVE IN DEVOURS ,UNLESS YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE IS ABUSIVE OR IS CHEATING.... ON YOU ETC...
2007-03-24 05:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by needs answers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋