how to be interesting to other people?

Question

how to talk, smile , to be serious and to pretend that you are smart (clever:)) or just to strike and be funny..I don't understand....:)

Answer 1

Ya know, the first thing you have to realize is that you are a creation of God and that you are interesting just being a child of His...sooo, you have to know your true identity. People find you interesting when you ask questions about them first...what to do they do, what they like to do, how they do what they do. Be focused on them more than on you. You will see, that people just love that and in return because you have shown an interest in them the tables are turned and they will inquire about you and Im sure there is alot to be said about you...in a good way...LOL So, you don't have to pretend to be smart because as you focus on other people you will be learning at the same time.

Answer 2

Listen , this world is for you , not you for the world. I do not mean that you should have higher ego or something . All i am saying is that just be yourself. You have been granted with some abilities that are are your specialty. You might not be funny or may not be interesting by behaving in certain ways. but same ways make you interesting and happy in other people's point of view. Be yourself, by that i do not mean that if you r dumb then just be dumb and ignorant for the rest of your life. I just mean that while striving for the best , have some self respect and while pleasing others, if not always then sometimes keep in mind your own happiness also. Life just asks you a simple step and in answer it is ever ready to lay down its mystery behind you. In general give love, you will get love. The reactions you get from people are the consequences of your own actions. Sometimes you behave nicely to people , but people do not respond in the same manner, then there is problem with the other person rather than you. Just stay on the course of give love and get love. Smile , laugh and be happy. True happiness is something that does not have to be shown by a fake smile. Live life to its full potential. Best of luck.

Answer 3

Well first of all don't go using big words if you don't know what they mean. Second, you shouldn't "pretend" to be anything your not naturally. and third, when you want to be funny, it's all about the timing, don't try and crack a knee slapper right after somebody else, or right after you said a joke in the first place. The key to being funny is leaving your audience wanting more.

Answer 4

Talk about things in general that people might have done. Make eye contact and be sure to smile. You don't have to pretend to be smart, just make sure you make a conversation, not just a one way deal.
Ask people about things they have done, where they have lived, what kinds of jobs they have had, funny stories about bosses and coworkers and friends, and interchange stories.

Answer 5

Listen to other people and what they say, then respond to them. People love to talk about themselves, so try to get to know people and talk about the things that interest them. Ask questions, that always keeps a conversation going. Read and get information about interesting things or fun facts to tell people when you are in a group. The best thing to do always is to be yourself and not pretend to be anything you're not.

Answer 6

if yo are young ? just be yourself , learn how to listen to others .( that is a good point to have ) read books , you can learn alot and have some interesting conversations ,
smiling comes naturally .:-)
why pretend to be smart ? just be smart ..............
you will always attract someone into conversations , if you really want it ......
the worst thing ? is to always talk about yourself ....
avoid dumb jokes , unless you are in a group that you know well and at a party ........
but mostly ? be yourself ...:-)

Answer 7

Don't even try. Figure out how to be interesting to yourself.
The rest will look after its self. Read and gather information on what you find interesting. As you gain knowledge you will naturally have things to talk to other people about. Be happy and self assured and people will be drawn to you.

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Answer 8

YOU HAVE TO HAVE A PERSONALITY THAT WOULD STRIKE PEOPLE, A PERSONALAITY THAT IS OUTGOING, OPEN YOURSELF UP,COME OUT SIDE THE BOX,JUMP OUT UR SKIN. SOME PEOPLE MIGHT JUST LIKE A LAYED BACK PERSON OR QUIET. THE BEST THING TO DO IS TO BE YOURSELF

Answer 9

In a nutshell? Be genuinely interested in the "other people"; well, one or two of them at a time

Answer 10

Have something interesting to say.
Or tell a funny joke.