A Question for All Men...?

Question

Hi, men...
This question is strictly for you...

I want each and every one of you to imagine this: you're married to the woman and love of your life... she's everything you have ever wanted, and you love her from all your heart... all of it.
Now let's say, but ofcourse God forbids, that one day she had to give up the Ghost, or that she had fallen into a comma... (or any other illness around that area...)
Will you move on? And will it be easy for you to move on? Would you ever re-marry? Or will you love her 'til you too give up the Ghost, and finally reunite with her in Paradise, where you'll last her side for eternity...?

Please feel free to have your say, and may your answers be honest...
Thank you...

Note: for those of you who were asking, by "giving up the Ghost" I meant death...

Answer 1

I would love her until the time we are able to meet in paradise. Once I have committed to loving a woman so completely, it will never change. Moving on would not be an option. Our hearts and souls are forever united and nothing can pull them apart. I am dreaming of meeting this woman.

Answer 2

I do love my wife. She's a good woman and I'd be crushed if anything happened to her.

Would I marry again or even date again? I don't know. Even if I did, it would take a long while for me to get over it. When you truly love your wife and she dies, that's not something you get over quickly.

Also, while I think I'm a good man, I'm kind of set in my ways. I'm kind of like Willie Nelson says in the song "On the Road Again"-where he says he's "insisting the world keep turning our way". That's me, I insist my way is the best. I'm hard headed.

Even if I could find a woman that would put up with my sad, tired rear end, I don't have a lot of what women seem to want these days. They want a guy that either is or looks like he's 20, has a six figure income, is "sensitive", and drives a sports car. In short, none of the things that I have.

So, while I wouldn't be adverse to finding someone else in the event my wife passed, I'm not sure anyone would have me, warts and all.

Answer 3

I guess it depends on how old I was at the time. If I was in my 20's or 30's I would probably re-marry, although there is no way you could ever forget her or course. I mean, that's a long time to be alone. If I was in my 50's or something, perhaps I would find someone as a companion but I wouldn't re-marry.

Answer 4

Personally I have never been married before and IF I do ever decide to get married, it will only be once, and I'll know in my heart that she is the one.

If the scenarios you presented ever occurred, personally I would never give up on her.
If she were in a coma, I would be by her side even if it meant I had to spend the rest of my life waiting for her to wake up.
Now if she died I don't believe I would go out looking for love or another wife, I would just be myself and see what the fates have to present to me.

Answer 5

Eventually I'd move on, yes.
Whether or not I'd find that level of emotional committment with anyone else is an impossible answer to give.
It wouldn't be easy, no. It's possible.
A new person would have to be understanding. No relationship is a one-way street.

Answer 6

that question really hits home for me, for my wife was almost taken from me less than a month ago. it really made me stop and think. She is truly a one-of-a-kind woman. totally irreplaceable. a gem amongst ordinary stones. however, my greatest fear is dying alone. i know i would have my children there with me, but that just wouldn't be enough for me. i would want someone there that shares my deepest secrets... my innermost desires... to tell me that all will be well soon. so... if my wife were to pass before me, i can honestly say i would eventually seek out companionship. after, of course, my stay in the mental institute.

Answer 7

Of Course my wife and I had had this conversation and truthfully I would not remarry. My wife although not perfect she is perfect for me and I never want to share my love with another women trust. Having said that I would more the likely have a cut buddy but nothing serious.

Answer 8

Id honor my vows "til death do us part" as Id have to guilty a conscience to move on without knowing if she could recover anyday and my heart belongs to her. Besides this falls under "thru sickness and in health" part too.

Answer 9

I don't think I could move on, because I love my girlfriend and think about her all the time. If I were married, I would discuss it with my wife for her if I died so that she would always have someone to take care of her, but I probably wouldn't remarry myself if she were to die.

Answer 10

I never thought I would before, but now, after being with my wife for 16 years, if she died I doubt I would remarry. I do not believe another as sweet as my wife exists and I am spoiled. I would have sex with a bunch of different women, but not remarry.