2007-03-16 05:49:59 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I believe it is possible, but not always healthy. I suggest you visit a counselor together to learn new ways to communicate with each other. If the fighting involves physical violence, I would classify it as definitely unhealthy and urge the person in danger to seek help as soon as possible!
2007-03-16 05:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by soccergal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's True Love-then, it don't matter how many times a day they fight or argue. As long as you guys don't cheat to each other, your relationship should still be all right. The main foundation of a relationship it True Love and Trust...forget about the number of fights. Counting the times you argue is really not healthy, why not use the arguments to learn from each other more? Don't give up the relationship just bec. of some dumb nonsense fights here & there, I think it's normal and healthy for a rela. to have misunderstanding, hey we're all humans. Always think of the positive things in your rel. and not the negatives.
2007-03-16 05:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by FlyingHi007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's possible and happens quite a bit between couples. The problem is that it isn't healthy for either one of you or for the relationship - have you guys ever sat down and talked about why you fight so much, tried to resolve the situation. You know some people sort of thrive on that kind of relationship - I know a girl who's simply not happy in a relationship unless there's turbulence and she doesn't understand why that is. There's really no simple answer to your question but please try and talk to your loved one about it - if you guys love each other perhaps you can find a kinder way of showing it.
2007-03-16 05:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes its possible to love someone and be with them.
but as for the fact that u both constantly fight/ quarrel,
i can either be good or bad, depends on how u view it personally. good in a sense whereby quarreling allows u to understand the opposite sex in a better way. bad in a sense whereby the fights often lead to bruises or even the use of vulgar language. personally i feel that when u quarrel with someone u love, u have to respect that person as well so no use of vulgar. but if the quarrelings often spark off due to small issues, i can say that there is something wrong with that person.
2007-03-16 05:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by von 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible to love someone that you fight with constantly, but sooner or later you will get sick of that kind of relationship. So, what ever you do do not marry a person like that or you will end up in a divorce. Let your head rule you when it comes to spending the rest of your life with that person.
2007-03-16 05:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES you may not be able to control your heart and know how hard it is to let him go if it starts to get unhealthy you should try to leave but trut me i know how hard it is. Me and my man have a one yaer old together and we fight alot! It has gotten better but he is still abusive verbally and physically however whenever i try to leave a day will pass by and i have to be with him again soon enough we are back to the same ways as before. As crazy as it seems our fights make us stronger! The bad times are real bad but the good times are amazing but the bad out weighs the good. I cant tell you to leave because i havent but i can tell you what i know so i hope this helps good luck!
2007-03-16 05:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. because with out the fights it wouldnt be interesting. I mean the relationship would be boring and not fun. The fights are going to tell you how the relationship works out. If you guys can constantly get in fights and cmake up then its something there. you love and fight at the same time.
2007-03-16 06:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by masterdloski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no loving couple who do not fight. They fight because they care. However, they must ask themselves why do we fight so often and fail to make allowances and fail to ignore small things and small mistakes of each other when we have that enduring love between ourselves.
It is possible to love while love lasts long enough to learn how to reduce the incidents of fighting.
2007-03-16 06:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by Saeeda KM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES ITS POSSIBLE! The only thing is that you both have to work on the relationship a little bit harder. You see we are all different and because of this we differ in everything- or most of them. So the solution is not racing your voice or talking bad at each other - its COMMUNICATING!!! talk out your differences and you'll see you'll get to a happy medium!
Luck to both!!
2007-03-16 06:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A huge part of love is respect! If the respect is not there it is possible to still care for someone, but you need to reevaluate your relationship and get better lines of communication to know if the relationship is able to be brought to the level of love.
2007-03-16 06:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by Angela M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋