Im two-months pregnant,im scared to tell my mother,but i dont know what to do?

Question

should i tell my parents?
I have a boyfriend and im scared to tell him?

Answer 1

Please tell your Mom, she may be upset at first, but she will help you get through this, and you will need to tell your b/f eventually don't you think he will start to notice?
Just be honest with your parents, better to let them know now so they can help you make decisions, and get the best care possible no matter what you choose, don't wait until you can't hide it anymore, the stress will not be healthy for you or baby.

Answer 2

If you've already decided what to do with your baby (have it, abortion, give it up for adoption..what ever you choose to do) you should tell your parents what's up and also the decision that you've chosen to do. By the way you asked the question I suspect you probably live with your parents and are pretty young still. Either way tell them, they'll eventually notice. If your scared of telling them, talk to someone you trust like school psychologist, a counsellor, a friend's mother, so that that person can help you bring the news to your parents. It also sounds like there is not much trust between you and your bf. Just think about what you have to do, think about the right or wrong choices you've made and come up with a plan. Everyone learns by they're mistakes (in case you consider this situation a mistake), don't feel bad just think about what your gonna do NOW. I know many girls that have been in your situation... at first they are all scared and worried and teary but as time goes by they seem to get better. A new baby is hard work but it's not impossible... Seek help from those you REALLY trust, not you bf. Good luck. Email me if you need anything else...


By the way... it's time for a OBGYN check-up!

Answer 3

You must tell your parents and your boyfriend. You could get some help in doing this. If you have a counselor or someone older that you are close to, get them to help you. Maybe a sister or aunt or uncle...? You will start to show before long and you'll need to get a doctor so they need to know. If you do not want this baby, you can always put it up for adoption.

Sorry you are in this predicament but if you are going to have sex, you need to understand what it can produce. Just be glad you didn't get AIDS or something that will kill you. That could happen easier than getting pg...

Answer 4

I know I'm going to get branded the Big Evil Guy for this, but if you're only two months pregnant, very young, don't have supportive parents or a supportive boyfriend, and especially if you fear abuse or anger from any of them, you do have the option of not going through with the pregnancy, and not telling anyone anything.

Answer 5

It's just time to grow up now. You need to tell your parents and your boyfriend. You do have options, and I don't mean delivering your baby and throwing it in a garbage can--not that you would do that, but I have heard of it, and it disgusts me. Adoption is a choice, and a good one. You will be all right, and if you can't get support from your family, turn elsewhere. People do love you, and will want to help you. You will get through this, and can still have a wonderful life in the future.

Answer 6

I first got pregnant when I was 19 yrs old and scared to tell my mom then too, but I did. At the time I found out, I was already almost three months pregnant and it was getting late to have an abortion. An abortion was against my religion and beliefs but I was still in my selfish stage and wanted to continue partying. I finally told my grandma first and she said she would give me the money to abort and then my mom found out. Even though it was against my mom's beliefs as well, she supported me. Then the day I was supposed to go to the doctor, my mom & I cried for hours and I told her I didn't feel right giving up my baby. She agreed. She said she couldn't sleep all night thinking about it. So she supported me my whole pregnancy and even cut the embilical cord when the baby was born. My daughter is 5 now and is still spoiled rotten by her grandparents.

Advise: Your mom may be upset at first but the idea of having a baby, a grandchild is very special to a parent. You would be very suprised how most parents are very supportive to help their single daughter raise a little one. It's a mistake and not the baby's. Now it's your job to work hard and save as much money as possible so that you can help support and pay for the necessities of parenthood. Also, I would look into Medi-Cal for insurance and WIC to help pay for food. It's tough being single but I'm sure your parents will be right behind you supporting you in having a well taken care of baby.

Regarding your boyfriend, it takes two to make the choice to have sex. It is his responsibility too. If he loves you, he will support you and support the baby. Depending on how truly "in love" or old you two are, you may want to look into settling down together, possibly marriage to help unite the family. That wasn't my situation but some do work out that way. My boyfriend wanted to get married but unfortunately I was neither in love with him to the point of marriage nor thought he would grow up enough to stop his selfish ways. Pregnancy actually helped me to become more responsible and I started working hard on school and work and got my Real Estate License soon after my daughter was born. That's the choice you have to make. To become a responsible adult.

Changes or experiences don't always come at the right time, but its up to you to make the adult decision and look out for the best interest of the child. Good luck sweetie.

I lived single for several years until I met my husband and am now having my second. If your boyfriend isn't the one, don't get discouraged. Alot of single moms make it out there. You definitely need the support of family so I recommend you telling your parents and boyfriend as soon as possible so they can help you. You are going to need the emotional support during this very beautiful yet different experience. ;)

Answer 7

Do you want this child?
Another option (which I know some people here on Yahoo Answers will crucify me for saying) is to terminate the pregnancy. It's totally confidential. No one has to know. And, you wouldn't have to tell your parents or your boyfriend. I've gone through this when I was a teenager. Best of luck to you!

Answer 8

Even though you don't want to, you must tell them. You have options to make and are running out of time if you choose not to keep the baby. If you're under 18, you'll need their support during this time for you. Then you and your boyfriend need to have a serious talk about your relationship.

Answer 9

Honey, you need to tell the father of your child first! And of course you need to tell your parents if you plan on keeping the baby or if you're underage. I waited until I was 6 months before I told my mother! She was so hurt that I waited that long to tell her. If you're at least 18 and plan on terminating the pregnancy then I don't think there's any point in telling your parents, especially if you know they'll be upset. Please tell the father of your child!!!!!

Answer 10

You have to tell your parents. They are going to find out eventually anyways. It may not be as bad as you think. Im sure they of course will be very upset in the beginning, but things will calm down. You need their support in this. Your boyfriend helped make this baby, so he needs to know too. Let your parents know first.