I know, maybe my question is cliche; but it's true. I think about sex all the time and my libido is high!
My boyfriend is 46 and I'm 29 and sometimes I feel that not even he can please me. There are times that I climax with him and I still use my vibrator to stimulate myself!
Its just this feeling of never feeling satisfied, does this m ake any sense to anybody ???
2007-03-16 05:43:20 · 11 answers · asked by daddiesgirl 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
yes, and what's funny is i'm 29 too. I have always been a very moist female and had a high labido but i have to say in this last year it has gotten really bad. I'm single so my options are better than yours but i started sleeping with men and women last year and sense last year i have had several times when i've had both at the same time and still no relief. i was starting to think i was crazy because there is just no way anyone can just be aroused all the time. If you figure out how to fix it let me know cause i seriouslly need help too. lol
2007-03-16 05:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by kaluah96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No real way of telling physically why you are that way unless you see the doctor - blood tests and all. Someone mentioned hormonal changes and that is a good guess. It may have something to do with less estrogen being produced which allows the effects of what little testosterone you have to take more control of the sex drive. Certain treatments for lack of female sex drive envolves testosterone cream on ---- the little man in the boat should we say. I would say enjoy it while it lasts and do not worry about it. Sex drive is a good thing as long as you deal with it in a productive and sensitive way. Its your body and should you wish to use the vibrator then there is nothing wrong with that. It makes perfect sense. You have an itch and you scratch. Do not let anyone convince you that at age 46 your boyfriend can not please or satisfy you. My personal experience is that I get there a little bit slower, stay there a lot, lot longer, a lot less sensitive and ride a lot lot longer. Ask him next time to stay on, explain to him your delima and I am sure his experience will come through. I have been young and I have been older. Believe me when I tell you, older is better.
2007-03-16 13:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that makes me wonder if you felt this way befor you were with him. With his experience and expertise he may be pleasing you so well that you just cant get enough. Its not that he is not enough its that he turns you on so much you cant come down. thats hot.
If its not him then maybe its your hormones or your need to be physical in other aspects like exercising or something. Either way its a good thing ;-) just make sure your practicing safe sex!
2007-03-16 12:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by InProgress:-) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have this problem, too. I was dating a guy until recently who was 16 years my senior (23 & 39), and sexual stamina was a problem. He could only *** once, but I could go on for hours.
that's why you can't listen to people who say, "sex isn't important." physical chemistry is as important (or almost as) as emotional or mental.
2007-03-16 15:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe they refer to those women as "Nymphos"! Maybe your man needs to spend a little more time before riding off into the sunset!
2007-03-16 13:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are totally normal..
sex drives very from person to person.i doubt that age has anything to do with it ..
only the the inexperienced would think that way..
at 47 i am as active and physically as good as i was in my teens..
older men are much better lovers
2007-03-16 12:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young Menes are more sexual than older ones
2007-03-16 12:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by sz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that makes sense! HE'S TOO OLD FOR YOU!
Get someone that doesn't need viagra to keep it up. LOL
2007-03-16 12:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by cutie.pie_xo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are just lucky I wish my sex drive was higher and matched my hubby
2007-03-16 12:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy yourself just don't do anything stupid!!!!
2007-03-16 16:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by Sonny Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋