The husband is the boss and you should get his approval on everything you do. right? correct me if i'm wrong.
2007-03-16 05:39:04 · 35 answers · asked by bluemist 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think so. You're in this marriage together. My man is the boss and that's the way I like it! Don't let people call you a doormat, you're simply being considerate of his feelings, and letting him be a man instead of a man in a dress.
I guarantee I'll be the only one that agrees with you :)
2007-03-16 05:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 1⤊ 7⤋
Wow! What a hot topic. I think if you look around, you will find that it is actually the reverse of what you are saying. Salespeople know very well to address the woman instead of the man when they are trying to sell because they know she is usually the decision maker. You will also find that the world has turned from female equality to female entitlement. On buses and trains, we are starting to see cities put in "pink seats," where only women are allowed to sit there. In Japan, they have women only trains on their subways. And, of course, women can use the non-women only. Also, there are women only health clubs and stores and even a women's only mall. In relationships, over 90% of men perform oral sex for woman while about 10% of women reciprocate. In movies, we are seeing far less female nudity and far more male nudity. Do you think these changes are for the enjoyment of men? I don't think so. To my surprise, I have actually heard of more and more examples of men taking their wife's last name at marriage. We are finally starting to honor and cherish women. Isn't that the sole purpose for male existence?
2007-03-16 06:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Julie Y 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wives?? need to remember? t should be wife has to be loved. not remember.. but why wives?? you have more than one wife? A married couple should love and respect each other based on wedding vows they made. The vows does not rule that wife should get husband approval on everything she do and he is the boss? No way..this is year 2007
2007-03-16 05:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by TO 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I think this is one of those questions people ask to get a rise out of other people. Don't take this question so seriously because the asker isn't taking it seriously. The asker is wrong in what was said, but I don't really think he was asking other than to see the responses. I think some of these people hope someone says something that they can report them for saying.
2007-03-16 06:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
from where i am from and how i was raised, there is this verse in the bible that wmn were put hre to be a mans helpmate. Also, we are to be beside our man not behind him. We are people to, with feelings and demand the same respect u husbands want from us.There is nothing wrong with letting the man cntrl somethings, but not everything including you(the wife). If u got to cntrl evrythng about ur wife u don't need her. be cntrling by urslf cause eventually, like i did for awhile, until my husband stopped ruling with an iron fists, left and showed him i am your wife and not your slave. i love u but you can't live my life and yours. we are as one and we(magic word), we are n this 2gether.
2007-03-16 05:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by yolanda c 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes and no to this one.. I don't know the reason why you are asking this question.....
Yes because decisions made should be a joint effort especially if its a huge purchase, a person she hangs around with who is trouble.. kids....and so forth...
No because its too controlling if its something that is apart of everyday life... like going grocery shopping, having a coffee at Tim Hortans, window shopping, talking and hanging with friends (friends that is).. and so on.
It truly depends on what the issue is at the time.
2007-03-16 05:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
On somethings if the woman doesn't work and stays at home.. But if she is out in the workforce too and contributing to the household finances then all should be equal in matters of the home and family.... I think you should set limits on spending, like anything over 200.00 is discussed and agreed upon.... I am not going to ask my husband if I can buy a new dress and get his approval on it.....
2007-03-16 05:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by Robin M 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
What? There's no such thing as the husband being the boss. Maybe in caveman days but the reality is to communicate and come to some type of common ground. We all have to make sacrifices here and there to please our spouses but only if you have unconditional love.
2007-03-16 05:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I always ask his opinion on things.. especially if it something big and finicial..
were a team and both of us should be invovled in some decisions
2007-03-16 05:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
That is way old testament and will never happen in this day and age.
If my husband tried to be my boss and tell me what I could and couldn't do, I'd leave. No one has the right to tell anyone else what to do!
2007-03-16 05:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 5⤋
a marriage is a PARTNERSHIP between two INDIVIDUALS.
people who are married need to spend time doing things they enjoy separate from each other sometimes, and connect doing things they both enjoy for "together time".
i'm not here to correct you. in marriage there is no boss and subordinate.
2007-03-16 05:45:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋