I will be moving soon, but I know I'm unable to survive on my own. All my friends are either lucky nough to stay on campus or are content on staying with their parents.
I'm at an age where I want to grow and develop as a person without family influence. Finishing school is my top priority along with developing my own opinions, experience certain things privately and I want to just understand who I am a little more ... and I can't do all these things living with my parents. I love my parents, but I just feel restrained living with them and I'm ready to branch out. Plus, I want to make my own decisions concerning my career path.
My Questions are:
1. I;m aware that I need a roomate, but what are the pros and cons of getting a roommate?
2. Where can I find a roommate that I can depend on? Are their any websites I could go to? Should I trust those who are online :(
3. What are the important things I should do before moving?
4. Am I wrong for feeling this way?
2007-03-16 05:30:45 · 3 answers · asked by rosie768 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I really care about the fact that they both smoke and I don't like breathing it anymore. Plus, I don't want to watch them destroy theirselves anymore .... I tried so hard to stop them from smoking but nothing works :(
2007-03-16 05:32:18 · update #1
You need to find a friend who is willing to move out. First off, if no one you know wants to move in with you, don't go online. Bad idea. Especially as a female. I say stick it out for a little bit longer, because eventually the opportunity will present itself. When you do decide to leave, make sure you hae built somewhat of a relationship with the person, because remember - you will be living with them.
Pros to having a roommate: Split bills, split rent, split chores, company
Cons: Getting a lazy roommate, sharing a car (possibly), roommate always having people over when you want quiet, roommate being loud
Just basically remember not to pick up anyone like your family. Or you will go insane.
2007-03-16 06:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by Trish 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was like you, didn't want to live at home and didn't really want a roommate. I lived in some real dives but a gallon of white paint, a roller set and some elbow grease made it clean and all mine...it's a tough decision because when it comes to trust the only person worthy of it is yourself. Roommates or their friends will steal your things sometimes and not pay-up their part of the expenses and forget about moving them out to get someone that will pay. Stay at home til you can afford to live alone.
2007-03-16 05:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 23:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋