alright i like this guy at school. and he happens to be a real good friend of mine. hes in three of my classes and lunch and we flirt all the time. like nonstop. and about a month ago my friend told him i liked him adn it got real awkward between us. he said he didnt like me and yeah it was bad. well then we started talking again and now we text and talk all the time and whenever someone brings up how cute a couple we are, hell like put his arm around me or grab my hand and say, 'oh yeah' and then hell look at me and say, 'jk'. but idk i mean im not going to tell him i like him again cuz its not worth it. i just want to know if he likes me. and idk. im so confused. i really need guys help on this one.
2007-03-16 05:08:09 · 6 answers · asked by hillary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you really like him and tend to flirt a lot with him, he probably cares for you and might not be ready for a relationship. If he has dated before and is a ladies man, he could be playing you or just not interested.
Either way, leave it the way it is right now. Flirting and hinting because it's fun as hell, isn't it.
If I were you I would continue to flirt with him and pull him aside privately. The only way you can answer all of your questions is say, "Hey Boy, you know I've liked you for a while now, and I was wondering if your interested in me. I didn't mean to bother you with my question."
This could flatter the hell out of him. (A good thing)
This communication could allow him to express himself to you.
The worst thing that can happen is that you can lose him as a friend or he can become distant. (You said he was a good friend, so doubtful that it will happen.)
The best thing that can happen is that you guys could become a real couple.
Just realize that you have to make your move to have all these questions answered no matter how hard or difficult it might be.
2007-03-16 05:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by iamcoreyb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had that happen. he doesnt like you, but he is seeing you not into him anymore and he wants that good friendship again. boys love to play around so thats why he says oh yeah to the ppl who say u 2 r good together. But, thats only one side. Maybe he knows that u like him and he begun to like u. Maybe he likes u and he doesnt noe that u like him still, that probably says jk. I think wen ppl say u 2 r good play along too...be like yup u noe it or something...that could help in wats going on....
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2007-03-16 05:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by DELETED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a girl but listen he is playing games why one minute it get awkward then the next he act like you like him....idk.... I don't like stuff like that ... tell him you like him... If he acts the same way let him know that y'all can be friends but he can't be leading you on like that and he needs to stop play in games
2007-03-16 05:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by Hello Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY I DID THE SAME THING TO A BOY, AND HE'S NOT VERY PROUD OF ME FOR MAKING THAT DESCISON BUT WERE STILL FRIENDS AND WE HANG OUT. hUN IT JUST MEANS HE LIKES YOU AS A FRIEND, BUT IS LOOKING FOR MORE GOOD TIMES IN THE FUTURE. tRY TELLING HIM u LIKE HIM, BUT NOT SO SOON, GET TO KNOW HIM BETTER,
HOPEFULLY THINGS WORK OUT.
2007-03-16 12:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by Maysia. [[funcky-chic]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL i THiNK THAT YOU SHOULD HAVE ONE OF YOUR FRiENDS TALK TO HiM AND ASK HiM iF HE JUST SO HAPPENS TO LiKE YOU TO THEN MAYBE THAT'S WHEN YOU COULD TELL HiM THAT YOU LiKE HiM AND SEE iF ANYTHiNG HAPPENS.
2007-03-16 05:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by SoDaMNHaRDtOFaLLinLOVE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants to go to the movies with you.. and invite some of your and his friends... maybe he will act different.. like more into you.
2007-03-16 05:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋