process. Now I am divorced and have no friends. How does one meet new people? I am disabled so meeting people at work isn't an option. Please help. I am so lonely.
2007-03-16 05:01:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First, seek some form of counseling that will help you deal with why you allow people to control your life. I dont know the nature of your disability but if this does not keep you in the house, it is time to join groups that have special interest to you. If you like the Arts, then join your community groups that deal with the Arts. I even made friends going to Weight Watchers. (Dont know if you have a weight problem) Get yourself on committees where you have to call and organize people or an event. This will take your mind off of being lonely. Also, if you can a dog is still woman's best friend. When I walked my dog, people always engaged me in conversation and I met several people this way. We had lots more in common than the dog but the dog made the introduction happen. The key to getting unlonely is to fill your time with activities that make you feel good about yourself. Being the victim of controllers ruins a persons self esteem and can make you feel dirty and damaged. Also, after a reasonable amount of time has passed, see if you reconnect with some of your friends that you really enjoyed. Sometimes freinds back off and remove themselves from the scene when a divorce is going on. You can often reclaim friends when the emotional stress is over. People become frightened by divorce as they often begin to see flaws in their own relationships that they would rather not see.
2007-03-16 05:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, you need to get out and do things that intrest you and in doing that you will meet people that share the same intrest,and therefore make new friends.If you are so diabled to get out, then maybe you should join a group that gathers at one members home to disscuse issues about whatever it is.And finally you could join more internet groups like "my space"&"hi5".
2007-03-16 05:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sidetracked0260 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The internet is a good place to meet people.
Hello there !..
You have just met me...
2007-03-16 05:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a bar drink a lot get crazy have some fun with complete strangers
2007-03-16 05:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by bored 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can meet people anywhere internet, store, etc. just start talking 2 some1.
2007-03-16 05:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by stefstudy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a good church group that has a great congretation of people. activies, and a great support network.
You will make friends in time............
2007-03-16 05:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could go to Bingo?
2007-03-16 05:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so many ways, start with the internet.
2007-03-16 05:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by kenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl ya met me haven't you your welcome any time fancy a cuppa???
2007-03-16 05:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋