What are some good ways to throw a little something different into my relationship with my boyfriend? I'm not saying things are boring or I don't get anything/enough from it. Everything is perfect, but I just want to suprise him with something different. If this is too mature for the message board, I can delete it.
But I would really appreciate some ideas. =)
2007-03-16 05:01:38 · 13 answers · asked by oceansofblue321 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
What do you mean changing it up?
2007-03-16 05:05:23 · update #1
We normally have sex.
We have different possitions.. but I was wondering if there were anymore.
We have oral sex too.
When one of us is driving we'll fool around with the other one.
2007-03-16 05:07:38 · update #2
No women, please.
2007-03-16 05:08:07 · update #3
Well, I mean, I wouldn't have sex with another woman.
2007-03-16 05:08:25 · update #4
There's lots of different things you can do other than " just sex " and different positions ... try surprising him by dressing up or sit him down and strip/dance for him ... tease him until he can't take it anymore ... send him naughty messages during the day telling him how much you want him ... go visit the Hustler Store and buy some new toys, c*ck rings, pornos, magazines, lubes, anal starter kits ... anything and everything you've always wanted to try ... me & my man have so much fun shopping for sex supplies - we each pick out one new thing to try … !
Have sex in public ( but don't get caught ..lol ) the park or playground is a lot of fun - plus it makes you feel like a kid again running around acting silly ... plan a scavenger hunt for him one night - set up different coupons or prizes for each thing he finds ( one free bj - one free massage ... etc ) and make the last thing he finds you naked in the bed waiting for him ... !
Maybe look into some light bondage ( a lot of fun when you're with somebody you can truly trust ) furry hand cuffs, soft feathers, little whips & ties ... tell him you're all his one night & give him the bag full of goodies ... cook him dinner wearing nothing but an apron - and bring dessert back to the bedroom - some chocolate, whip cream, grapes ( or whatever his favorite type of fruit is ) bubbly or beer depending on his taste ... get some plastic from the store and put it under a cheep sheet that you can throw away and have a blast - getting all sticky and dirty - afterwards make it shower time - get nice and wet - or draw a sexy bath with candles & music ... guys like to be pampered too ... if you want some more ideas just e-mail me ... have fun and be open-minded ... communicate and let him know what you like ... the more you show him you're comfortable with him the more he'll show you what turns him on and what he wants ... now go get you some ... lol ... !
2007-03-16 06:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a cute simple lingerie outfit or if you know he is on way over tell him to just walk in. I leave my man a trail of sexy little nothins from the door to the bathroom and be in the shower or a bubble bath waiting for him. I lit candles all over the counter so the lighting could be intimate or you can leave lights on. Something that will catch him off guard after work... My man keeps asking me took cook him a dinner in a sexy outfit and heels but.... we are in an apt and just kinda shy.
2007-03-16 12:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by abq505chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go in your bedroom & when your bloke walks in the House, tell him to come upstairs but not to come in your room. Leave your door shut and light candles and maybe have toys and stuff ready. Then tell him to walk in and throw him down on some cushions, go on top of him and have control.
Wear some sexy lingerie too because it'll really make him drool
2007-03-16 12:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by ♥H] ッ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be pretty cool to come home to a cop with sexy pantys on and a short skirt, ready to make an arrest, but she'll have to conduct a search first just incase i've got any large weapons. dress ups is fun!
2007-03-16 12:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by nightdreamer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try giving or demand strip tease
Try sensual massages
Try making love in outrageous places(where you might get caught)
Try roleplaying (both in bed and also outside)
Try switching positions(submissive/dominating)
Try the rear door & dual penetration with toys(hope you understood)
Try silly sweet things like putting love notes in his pocket
Hope these helped.
2007-03-16 12:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go and get a Karma Sutra book and just start picking pages out of the book at random.
2007-03-16 12:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by mewiegele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Some Toys My wife really enjoys Them and i like using them on her.
2007-03-16 12:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by bob r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cosmo has tons of info on this subject. Pick up a copy and check it out, it does help.=)
2007-03-16 12:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a nurses uniform men like that type of thing plus tie him up and film your sex life spicey
2007-03-16 12:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you referring to spicing up your sex life? Try role-playing.
2007-03-16 12:04:47 · answer #10 · answered by ropman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋