What do you do when your loved one is in college and your still in High school, you never talk bc they are always out at college or in Drivers ED since the state requires it. Also, we live and hr and a half from another and I've tried to tell my loved one how i feel but they say they miss me and all but they dont make any effort to stay home. They're parents are very abusive *verbaly* and they say they go to the college to stay away from them but they take their cell but still never calls or talks to me.. What do I do? Talking isn't helping and I don't know what else to do i don't want to break up with them but what do I do? HELP!
2007-03-16 04:58:25 · 7 answers · asked by Awakened 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
.. I'm with a girl...not boy
2007-03-16 05:02:06 · update #1
we've been together for a yr n 8 months today
2007-03-16 05:05:32 · update #2
IM WITH A GIRL, NOT A BOY! ..... shessh lol.
2007-03-16 07:07:13 · update #3
It sounds like maybe she is just getting into the swing of college life. I know you said that you talked but it might be time for another serious one. Apart from telling her how you feel there is not much else that you can do. Let her know that you are feeling excluded from her life and it hurts you. If she doesn't change her ways then I would say it might be time to break up. I dated a guy and I stayed in high school and he went off to college, I just couldn't compete so I ended up breaking up with him. He didn't want to end it but he really didn't have much in common with me anymore nor I with him. Good luck!
2007-03-16 05:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a really hard one to say... If he isn't calling you, and you call him all the time. I would give him an ultimatum. Tell him that if he doesn't want to make an effort to be with you, then you'll have to take time apart. If he doesn't say he wants to make an effort, accept it... and try to move on.... Because it doesn't seem like he is making this issue a priority.
2007-03-16 12:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by larua_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think the only way to really solve the problem is just straight out tell your partner whats on your mind. I personally thin that for a relationship to work both people need to work at it but if you are the only one working on the relationship then you should get out.
2007-03-16 12:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by Katy K 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a bad situation for you, and you need to get out of it. Being in college is *less* demanding of someone's time, not more demanding, so if anything, he should have more time to spend with you.
I encourage you to break up with him and find someone who is local and can spend more time with you. Plus, find someone who doesn't have so much drama in their life. You deserve to be happy.
2007-03-16 12:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is up to b/f to keep the relationship alive..
If he is not doing it then you need to move on.
2007-03-16 12:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up with him and find someone who can spend more time with you.
2007-03-16 12:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should go on with you own life also.
2007-03-16 12:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by ladybug 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋